New Sex Research Maps the Explosion of Erotic Kinks Emerging in 21st Century Sexuality

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Innovative survey helps people clarify their core sexual themes and avoid erotic mismatches in relationships.

What To Do With Your Nice Guy When She Begs For Your Bad Boy


How one nice guy responded to his partner’s request for dominating, rough, kinky sex?

How One Couple Saved Their Relationship Exploring Conscious D/s-BDSM (NSFW!)


A woman daringly explores the depths of her submissive sexual kink. Her reluctant “nice guy” fiancé slowly warms to his own dominate counterpart.

Anatomy of a Personal Erotic Myth – Feminine View


A woman braves her fears about her sexual desires to embrace her lifelong fetish sexual yearnings and save her relationship

Beyond Friction Sex Part 2: How to Journey to the Deepest Realms of Eros


Sex expert Galen Fous lays out the the steps to mutual sexual ecstasy.

Do You Like Your Sex Holy or Nasty?


Galen Fous charts the range of sexual expression from carnal to divine. What’s your preference?

Is the Problem Sex/Porn Addiction or Sexual Dishonesty?


Sex therapist Galen Fous has worked with hundreds of men and women. What he’s discovered is the explosive, ecstatic depths of human sexuality.

Ghosts in Leather


In this daring poem, James Siegel takes us back to gay, American leather bars in the 1980s, paying tribute to an almost mythical subculture–a minority within a minority.

How to Welcome Your Male Sex Creature


Galen Fous reveals 5 keys to being a sexually authentic, conscious and empowered man.

The Strength of Submission

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At first, John Edale worried about sharing this private aspect of his life in a blog, but has found that coming out as submissive has unexpected benefits.

Is BDSM Just a Phase?


A dominant man’s sexuality matures and evolves with experience.

The Utility of Violent Porn


Under what circumstances is it acceptable to simulate non-consensual or violent sex?

Opinion: The Commentary Track for the September 22nd Buy Pile, Issue #11 [@cbr] “Everything Old is New Again”

An analysis of elements from Hannibal Tabu’s reviews column on Comic Book Resources.

Everyone’s a Freak: What Fetishes Can Teach Us about Male Sexuality

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Perhaps the real nature of physical attraction is some characteristics about someone that, for whatever crazy set of reasons and non-reasons, you are obsessed with.

The 10 at 10


Doritos-fetish guy speaks, why we need a Super Bowl holiday, and economic theory applied to marriage: the 10 at 10.

What’s the Problem With Michelle Ryan’s Feet?

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New York hasn’t overwhelmed the small-town football boy. Now something quite private and possibly weird—but healthy and affectionate—has surfaced, and we see a different side of the big man in green.