Should We Forgive Apologetic Bullies?

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Bullying leaves life-long consequences. Is one of those consequences a lifetime of clouded judgement?

A Gentlemen’s Theory: Keep Your Favorite Pornstars a Secret

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What men talk about when we talk about porn.

Burned Feet and Compassion: the Emotional Experience of Extreme Sex

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Noah Brand comments on a Jezebel article about a man whose sexual rituals include having his feet burned with cigarettes.

“No one has the right to control another’s fantasies.”

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This is a comment by Archy on the post “Why Do Married Men Watch Porn?”

Why I Love Weird Porn

A note: as a courtesy, most of the esoteric terminology in this article will not be clarified with links. Google is your friend, but be aware that you’re rolling the dice; some of these things will be disturbing or upsetting to you, others may end up pushing buttons you never knew you had. So, y’know, [...]

It’s About More Than Titillation: Don’t Give Up On College Sex Week

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Eric Henney examines how the “Sex Weeks” being held at universities such as Harvard fail, and also how they succeed.

Good Consent

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Is there an all-encompassing ethic of sexual consent? Ozy Frantz lays down some ground rules.

Learn to Love Your Libido

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 Ever feel ashamed of your sexual desires? Noah Brand talks about how to move past those feelings and trust your lust. Long ago, I heard a legend of a Sunday School teacher who taught the kids in her class about Matthew 21:18-22, in which Jesus gets pissed off at a fig tree for basically no [...]