Your Ally is Someone Who…

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Sam Killermann looks at a few ways to be #BetterAllies.

Dating a Newly-Out Gay Man: 7 Pros and 7 Cons

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Heaven on earth or hell waiting to happen? Newly out gay men are always full of surprises.

Feel the Fear and Do Me Anyway

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I know my disability scares you; here’s why that’s okay.

Growing Up Gay in the Modern American South

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The modern South, and being a gay man there, is everything and nothing you’d expect it to be.

Are Hookup Apps Destroying Gay Culture?

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One writer thinks that hookup apps are perpetuating stereotypes and destroying relationships.

“Given That I’m Gay” – Cheerios Brings Us a Bowl Of Happy

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How could anyone believe this little girl isn’t lucky to have these two for Dads?

What We Can Learn from the Author of My Thinning Years

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Jon Croteau’s memoir, “My Thinning Years: Starving the Gay Within”, goes beyond the story of a man who overcame an abusive father to reveal a reality about men that is barely acknowledged, and the will that it takes to move beyond your past.

How I Found Myself in Love With Two Gay Men

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Ten years into a happy marriage, Pamela Morris’ husband told her he was gay. Years later her son came out. She worked through her own emotions in order to love and support them both.

Understanding LGBTQ Abuse in the South

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Sometimes, the roots of violence against LGBTQ people go much deeper than the hearts and minds of a few people or communities.

Traveling While Gay

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With increased rights in many places, there’s a world of LGBT-friendly travel options. World traveler Adam has 13 tips to get you on the road.

Because There is No Such Thing As a “Repaired” Gay

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Once a “repaired” gay man, and a minister preaching salvation from homosexuality, now Tim Rymel just hopes to be heard when he says you are worthy of being loved just because you are here.

My Thinning Years: Starving the Gay Within

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On the day of my mother’s funeral, my father had quadruple bypass surgery. It was an odd blessing for my siblings and me.

Southern Gay Men And Interracial Dating

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There are a lot of things that are still pretty backwards in the South. Glenn Garner shows us the difficulty of not only being a gay man in the South, but one who may be interested in races other than his own.

Stuff We Gay Guys Wish You Wouldn’t Say

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This video of stuff women (and not just women) say to gay men is still just a little too right on. So stop. Please.

Struggling with “Twink” Envy

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As a young gay man, Glenn Garner struggled with the unrealistic body ideals that pop culture, gay and straight, said were “right” for guys like him.

Dear White Gay Men: You Don’t Get a ‘Race Card’ For Being Gay

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As gay men with white privilege, we want to explain to you how oppressive and embarrassing you are.