Looking for Love as a Single Gay Dad

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After Azul comes out to his wife – it turns out she’s gay too – he learns how to be a single dad. And then he goes to a coming out group.

Gay Men and Monogamy: An Impossible Combination?

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Michael Radkowsky responds to the question, “Can two gay men really have a monogamous relationship?”

When You Say No to LGBT Rights, You’re Saying Yes to This

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People think that equal treatment and equal protection are not important. They might want to reconsider.

Dominance and Disability: Control, The Cripple and Learning to Let Go

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Andrew Morrison-Gurza talks about assumptions, reality, and how many different ways there are to define “control”.

What I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out

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A young man named Adam learned there’s more to coming out than saying the magic words.

Are You in the Closet? You May Be Surprised!

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Whatever part of yourself you’re hiding from the world, it’s holding you back from opening the door to your life.

We Didn’t Do It For Other People. We Did It For Ourselves.

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Bob Lanning tells the story of his 46-year polyamorous relationship with two other military men.

Let’s End the Bad Blood Policy

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Seth Thomas looks at one of the many stories behind why the MSM blood policy needs to change…and one man fighting for that change.

Call for Submissions: Gay, Bisexual, Asexual Men

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We want the voices of gay, bisexual, and asexual men to be part of the conversation.*

Exercise: write a letter to the person who infected you

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Noah Stetzer explores HIV and uncertainty in this sobering poem.

Cleansed, Crisp and Crippled: The Challenges of Staying Dapperly Delicious While Disabled

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Dating while disabled comes with certain challenges. Andrew Morrison-Gurza recently had to face a difficult one.

Let’s Review: When Is It Ok to Say Use the Word Gay?

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This is a plea to stop using “gay” as exchangeable for “bad”.

Experiencing Racism Within The LGBTQ Community

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Nelson Moses Lassiter learns that racism is very much alive within the LGBTQ community when friends started asking uncomfortable questions.

30 Things I’ve Learned About Gay Relationships While Being Single

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Contributor David Artavia shares solid personal insight about the nature of gay relationships, dating, and sex.

Keeping Secrets and Telling Lies

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If you’re living a lie your health may depend on coming out and coming clean.

Meet Cassandro, Mexico’s Lucha Libre Drag Queen Superstar

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Throw all of your stereotypes about wrestlers, drag queens, and gay men out the window.