I’m a Guy Who Came Out as Bisexual and Now Can’t Date Anyone, Gay or Straight

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In one of the proudest moments of my life, I changed my OkCupid profile from straight to bisexual.

Nowhere to Go

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Allen Fraser Clark captures the frustration and desire of young men, eager for sexual expression and frightened by it.

Can Walmart Become an Agent for Social Change?

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Can a shift in culture remake Walmart as an agent for social change?

Comment of the Day: “Life is a complex game, not a snapshot”

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This comment is by Lucas, on the post “She’s still the same person, but I just know a little more about her.”

What to Do When Your Friend Comes Out to You

What to Do When by wellcast

3 simple ways to be supportive when your friend tells you he or she is gay.

It Turns Out Male Sexuality is Just as Fluid as Female Sexuality

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Why is it that women can retain their heterosexuality if they kiss, but if men do the same they’re labeled gay?

Mater, Maritatus

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Dakota Garilli writes of boys, their mothers, and “how we learn /of love.”

No Elegies for Porn Stars

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Dean Kostos’s newest book, This is Not a Skyscraper, contains many gems. This reflection on a porn watcher’s sense of entitlement to the attention of a neighborhood porn star–“earned by years of yearning”–is one such standout.

Dreamboys

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L. Lamar Wilson illustrates the challenging intersection of childhood, homophobia, and race.

One Post To Rule Them All: The Answer To All You Are Searching For

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One post that attempts to help you find what you’re looking for.

When You’re Thirteen

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Jarrett Neal considers that familiar rite of passage from childhood to adolescence–the boys’ locker room.

Love Has No Labels

Love Has No Labels by Ad Council

Watch what happens when the skeletons step out from behind the screen.

Dear Erskine College, God Does Not Hate Gay People

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Erskine College is the latest to use God’s Word to promote hatred. Wai Sallas wonders, when will love conquer hate

I Left It On the Mountain

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Jesse Kornbluth reviews the incredible memoir of a former meth addict, an HIV positive man, and a survivor of life’s trials.

Home

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Bill Trüb presents a poem replete with striking–and eerie–imagery.

I Just Came Out and I’m Not Gay

Coming Out

Every single one of us has the opportunity to “come out” whether we are LGBT or not; here’s why…