Steve Locke, with a passionate rant about guys who “can’t come out.”
Gay People Need to Stop Having Sex with Republican Homophobes, No Matter How Hot They Are
February 20, 2012 By 35 Comments
Mark Nelson’s Coming Out Story: ‘Mary’s Really Michael’
January 22, 2012 By 6 Comments
Mark Nelson says we should all just be ourselves. And if anyone doesn’t like it, screw them.
#15: Just Another Happy Family
January 15, 2012 By 6 Comments
“As a twenty-something-year-old gay man, he stepped up and took them on as his own.”
Masculinity Isn’t Good—It’s Great
January 5, 2012 By 30 Comments
Men’s roles are changing and becoming flexible, Quiet Riot Girl writes, which is for the best.
The Disappearing Boy
December 10, 2011 By 3 Comments
“Nathan!” Chris said. “What the fuck’s wrong with you? This isn’t a game anymore.” By David James Poissant
Potty Mouth Versus Poetry Mouth
December 7, 2011 By 8 Comments
Paul Leroux shares a gay man’s perspective on the visual and verbal idioms (and idiocies) of porn versus erotica.
Lesbians and Their Straight Bro’Friends
December 5, 2011 By 9 Comments
And why there’s no equivalent to “fag hag” when straight guys are friends with lesbians.
“In 1945, We Had Not Yet Invented Gay People” Duane Michal’s Coming Out Story
November 27, 2011 By 3 Comments
Carsten Fleck created a multimedia project on how 18 gay men and women came out to their families and friends. Here’s Duane Michal’s story.
On Being Straight: A Thought Experiment
October 29, 2011 By 11 Comments
Robert Peake knows he is straight. Why would that be hard to accept?
Ghosts
October 15, 2011 By 24 Comments
“My girlfriend, the incredibly hot born-again Christian to whom I lost my virginity, asked me if you were an actual fag, or if you just acted like one.” By Michael Rowe
A Gay Man and the Church: Trying to Reconcile My Sexuality
October 12, 2011 By 13 Comments
Paul Leroux turns to spirituality to reconcile his sexuality.
Be the Hero of Your Novel
September 20, 2011 By 4 Comments
All those things you learned in English lit class? They were really lessons in how to live your life.
Dream Lover: Be the One They’ll Never Forget
September 12, 2011 By 3 Comments
Paul Leroux had a dream lover —mesmerizing, magnetic and memorable — for three years. And he’s kind enough to share the secrets that made that relationship work.
An Interview With Poet Franklin Abbott
August 20, 2011 By 2 Comments
Yolo Akili interviews poet Franklin Abbott about radical faeries, radical male feminism, and radical love.
Straight Guilt and Things Left Unsaid
August 6, 2011 By Leave a Comment
Donald Unger remembers how most of the gay men in the high school class of 1980 came out: they died.
Vocalyze
Oh, I Get Why It’s Called The Good Men Project Now
The signs are all there: it’s about the discussion.