We need to start finding common ground and making friends in anti-violence efforts.
Am I Still Safe?
May 12, 2012 By 26 Comments
I never thought I’d say this, in what I used to believe was the greatest country in the world, but I don’t feel safe in America. Will I continue to be stripped of my rights? When will it end? Should I get out now?
Treehouse Envy
April 17, 2012 By 4 Comments
There are many ways for a man to measure his success as a father. For William Lucas Walker, it came down to whose kids got the coolest treehouse.
Dear John: Just Friends Again?
March 25, 2012 By 25 Comments
Dear John addresses the so-called “friend zone”, offers advice to a man bothered by a prejudiced coworker, and talks about a tricky matter of professional ethics.
Kirk Cameron Outs Himself As A Homophobe
March 4, 2012 By 122 Comments
Nicole Johnson tells Kirk Cameron to grow up and drop the hate speech.
In Defense of the One-Night Stand
March 1, 2012 By 12 Comments
Sex with a stranger can be about desire, but it may say nothing about where one’s heart lies.
Say Good-bye to “That’s So Gay”: On the Decline of Homophobia
February 22, 2012 By 9 Comments
Mark McCormack: “We do no-one any favors if we only fight prejudice that is, for some, yesterday’s battle.”
Gay People Need to Stop Having Sex with Republican Homophobes, No Matter How Hot They Are
February 20, 2012 By 37 Comments
Steve Locke, with a passionate rant about guys who “can’t come out.”
Mark Nelson’s Coming Out Story: ‘Mary’s Really Michael’
January 22, 2012 By 6 Comments
Mark Nelson says we should all just be ourselves. And if anyone doesn’t like it, screw them.
#15: Just Another Happy Family
January 15, 2012 By 6 Comments
“As a twenty-something-year-old gay man, he stepped up and took them on as his own.”
Masculinity Isn’t Good—It’s Great
January 5, 2012 By 30 Comments
Men’s roles are changing and becoming flexible, Quiet Riot Girl writes, which is for the best.
The Disappearing Boy
December 10, 2011 By 3 Comments
“Nathan!” Chris said. “What the fuck’s wrong with you? This isn’t a game anymore.” By David James Poissant
Potty Mouth Versus Poetry Mouth
December 7, 2011 By 8 Comments
Paul Leroux shares a gay man’s perspective on the visual and verbal idioms (and idiocies) of porn versus erotica.
Lesbians and Their Straight Bro’Friends
December 5, 2011 By 10 Comments
And why there’s no equivalent to “fag hag” when straight guys are friends with lesbians.
“In 1945, We Had Not Yet Invented Gay People” Duane Michal’s Coming Out Story
November 27, 2011 By 3 Comments
Carsten Fleck created a multimedia project on how 18 gay men and women came out to their families and friends. Here’s Duane Michal’s story.
Vocalyze
“You can’t be G.A.Y.! I fancy you!”
This comment was from MediaHound on the Open Thread: “What’s the Dumbest Thing a Woman Has Said to YOU?”