A Gay, Aboriginal, Introverted Male (And Not At All What You’d Expect That Means)

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Dameyon Bonson has a few stereotypes he’d like to dispel.

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In this excerpt, Eric Norris writes about an awkward, thoughtful conversation with his Japanese-American boyfriend, both men recalling their fathers’ roles in World War II.

#YouCantBreakMe: These Bullying Victims Prove You Have To Go Through It To Get Through It (Video)

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Many ‘beautiful’ people have battled through ugly pasts. In this video, you’ll see their testimonies.

Marriage Equality Just Got a Little More Complicated

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Tweet In just a few days, six new lawsuits regarding marriage equality have popped up around the country.  — Six new lawsuits, really? Really, gay and lesbian couples? Is this really the way you want to be doing things? In the span of just a few days, six new lawsuits have popped up around the […]

When Homophobia Tries Hugs Over Hate

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In this response video people stop being afraid long enough to be something more. Embraced.

Cisgenderfluid – Defining a Flexible CIS Gender

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Charlie Glickman asks, “How do I describe myself when I’m simultaneously a cisgender man and gender fluid?”

Confessions From A Lesbian: Why I Used to Hate Men

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Regina Cates once hated men for good reasons, but here is why they are now her closest friends in the world. I used to hate men. Maybe that is the stereotypical view men have about gay women, that we’re men haters, diesel dykes, and frustrated spinsters. But my reasons for starting out life hating men were valid.

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Bryan Borland honors his husband and anticipates their future son in this breathtaking poem. This is how you write a love poem.

20 Strangers Kiss for the First Time

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Who knew strangers kissing could be so romantic.

Mister in Condado’s Ebb and Flow

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Not all men want to chase after pretty young things. Jim Elledge’s “Mister,” for example, ponders sex on the beach, and opts for another martini.

“We humans are attracted to the person, not the sexual identity”

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It Turns Out My Partner Is a Woman. So What Does That Make Me?

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Jason Rozek never imagined he’d be asking himself this relationship question.

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Michael Montlack writes of celebrities, drag queens, oral sex, and other ho-hum things.

Coming Out Is More than Saying ‘I’m Gay’

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Dillan DiGiovanni reminds us that coming out is a lot more complicated than saying a few words about yourself.

Stop Hanging Out: How To Ask Her On A Proper Date

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Guys, when it’s time to step up and ask that special woman out on a date, here’s how to do it.

Can The Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine Dance Together Without Stepping On Each Other’s Toes?

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Edie Weinstein wonders if after 15 years of flying solo, with a few luscious layovers and perilous crash landings, can she truly allow herself to surrender and be protected by someone who possesses a more masculine persona?