Ask the Feminist Answers: Definitions, Recommendations, and Media Violence Against Men

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Resident feminist HeatherN tackles the first round of questions in our new series, Ask the Feminist.

How Not to Be a Jerk to Your Bisexual Friend

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From saying “it’s a phase” to inviting someone you barely know to a threesome, Brigitte Tilley wants to help you be less of an asshole to your bisexual friends.

I Want the World to See The Man I See in Myself

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I take my selfies because I am that guy who, unless he takes the picture or suggests it, doesn’t get his picture taken.

8 Studies That Debunk Gender Stereotypes

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You hear conservatives say it all the time: men should ‘naturally’ be more rational and less sensitive, whereas women’s ‘natural’ brain structures wire them for language and empathy. Could this possibly be true?

White Men Rule The World*

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Joseph Osmundson reflects upon how complicated privilege is in real life, when one might be trapped in the jacket of masculinity and want to escape.

How Feminism Made Me a Better Gay Man

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Zach Stafford realized that it takes more than liking someone to see them as equal; you also have to fight next to them.

10 Things Straight People Say to Their Gay Friends That Make Me Want to Vomit

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Chloë gently corrects her hetero friends on their top 10 hetero biffles, such as saying, “I love my gays!”

An Anti-Marriage Feminist Gets (Happily) Married

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A young woman learns that the sexual revolution was not about destroying institutions. It was about earning people the right to choose their life path.

Male Nudity in Public

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Jamie Utt realizes that it’s time to put some pants on.

Sleight of Hand: The Real Magic Of Magic Mike

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Julie Gillis wonders if the strip club is perhaps a temple of honest humanity, and it’s only the shadow of shame cast by society that causes all the troubles.

Captain America Versus Male Privilege

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Uncle Woofie fights the menacing concept of male privilege—with a little help from Captain America.

I Can’t Speak for Men, and I Shouldn’t Have to

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“I cannot and will not assume the collective voice of my gender.”

Liking Penises Doesn’t Mean Envying Them

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Any societal arguments for penis envy have dissolved in the 21st Century, Maria Pawlowska argues.

Does the Mustache Make the Man?

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Whether a man’s mustache defines him remains to be seen. What is certain is that, hipsters excepted, it does give him a certain je ne sais quoi.

Manliness Is Like Pornography

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‘You can’t make a list of the things that qualify someone for manliness; there’s no checklist. You can’t tell what manly really is.’

How to Abuse Your Wife Without Really Trying

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Not beating your woman, but wish you could?