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HeatherN offers herself up for anyone who may have questions about feminism or gender politics. No question too big, no question too small!

On Gaslighting and Male Privilege

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This all boils down to how we handle differences of opinion.

Irresistible Attraction: Some Christian Thoughts Regarding James Knight Firing Melissa Nelson

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Four Christian responses to the myth of “irresistible attraction.”

“As an introduction to manhood I would tell boys: the pain you feel matters.”

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This is a comment by Eagle35 on the comment of the day: “Women are not the benchmark for manhood.”

“I think about this a lot with coworkers: would I find this person as offensive if she were a man?”

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This is a comment by wellokaythen on the post “‘He’s a Boss, She’s a Bitch’”.

Switcheroo: A Confrontational Gender-Bending Experiment

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Hana Pesut’s Switcheroo photos expose how gender and identity are defined by the clothing we choose to wear. Joanna Schroeder and her husband volunteer to participate in the experiment.

Why Men Can’t Be Feminists

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Shawn Maxam explains how power dynamics and issues of privilege can distract us from the real conversations men need to be having.

There Is No Gender War

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Noah Brand makes the case for a non-adversarial model of gender.

The Bachelor, Feminism and China

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Tom Matlack seeks to understand the conundrum of how we talk about what we talk about.

Men at Work: Objecting ‘The End of Men’ and Celebrating Masculinity in the Workforce

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Derek Rose’s meticulously researched data challenges Hannah Rosin’s “The End of Men” and renders much of the demise of men in the workforce to myth.

Why Are So Many Good Men Accepting of Rape Culture?

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Nikki Brown calls for men to resist an easy acceptance of rape culture and to speak out in defense of their gender.

No, Seriously, What About the Men?

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A closer look at how misandrist arms of feminism institutionalize the neglect of men and masculinity in women’s and gender studies.

How to Abuse Your Wife Without Really Trying

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Not beating your woman, but wish you could?

Is ‘For Women Only’ Good for Men and Women?

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Nicole Rodgers and Hugo Schwyzer discuss whether or not the Huffington Post’s new ‘Women’s Section’ does good or harm for women and men.

Why Am I Afraid of Math?

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Despite parents of the you-can-be-anything-you-want persuasion, Emily Heist-Moss absorbed the misguided notion that math and science were not going to play a role in her future.

The First Myth of Patriarchy: The Acorn on the Pillow

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Tad Hargrave explains how patriarchy and masculinity are not the same thing, and privilege is not good for anyone.