The Search for a New Masculinity

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Sebastián Molano used a surprising incident on a Washington D.C. street corner to examine how to examine, transform and embrace gender roles.

When Men Resent Women

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Tommy Threadcraft believes that even though men who resent women are in the minority, it’s helpful to look at the reasons why.

Dear Men and Women, I Won’t Apologize to You

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Jayson Gaddis believes there is a better way than blaming or apologizing to the other sex.

Give and Receive With Two Hands

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“Hold a true friend with both hands.” ~ Kanuri proverb

The Counsel of Garlic

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“I’d been crushed, skinned, diced, seared, and salted. The Universe pointed and laughed; I laughed too.”

The Golden Ratio of Attraction

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“Men love bitches, women love bad boys.”

World Peace, Part 1

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Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman’s toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace. ~~ Marianne Williamson

Viral Photo of Tyler Seguin Raises Big Questions

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What does it say about our society when an apparently photo-shopped photo of the Bruins’ Tyler Seguin and his supposed groupies goes massively viral? Who does it harm?

His Black Dress, Revisited

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Clothing, Gender, Sexual Orientation, Attraction

Prehistoric Rape Machines and Protectors

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If women are blamed for their own victimization, what happens to men? Bridget Welch explores how the dichotomy of virgin-slut provides a dichotomy for men: rapist-protector.

“Can you imagine how degraded the culture would be if it were populated by men who founded men’s websites dedicated to men asking themselves how to be better men?”

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This comment by Michael Rowe was in reply to Tom Matlack’s post “Being a Dude is a Good Thing.”

As Equals and as Friends

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Amanda Marcotte responds to Tom Matlack

Ladies, Let’s Stop Declaring War on Men

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No matter what kind of animosity exists between men and women, we must put the guns away, writes Nicole Jonson, and realize we can’t live without one another.

Dudes and Dildos

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Why don’t straight men like anal sex? Maria Pawlowska’s answers might surprise you.

On Being Straight: A Thought Experiment

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Robert Peake knows he is straight. Why would that be hard to accept?

The Balls Don’t Make the Man

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I read ‘The End of Men,’ re-read it, watched the debates, and now watch as it turns into a book. It provoked reflection on what makes me a man, and inevitably, I had to break it down to fundamentals.