The Waco Shooting, Macho Masculinity, and the “Breastaurant”

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Is the “Ultimate Man Cave” business model an open invitation for violent misdeeds as well as machismo mischief?

Why We Love the Little Boy Inside the Man

vulnerable man

You’ve been told, in actions and in words, what it takes to be a man. Now it’s time for the truth.

Could You Be Gay And Not Know It?


Sexual identity is a personal experience, regardless of behavior, or how others define us.

But Where Do Men Go From Here?

But where do men go now

“Men need to strive for authenticity, not femininity.” Inside the conversation at The Good Men Project

A Genderqueer Polyromantic Bisexual Teen Formerly Known as Miley Cyrus Walked Into My Office


OK OK, she wasn’t Miley Cyrus. But recently several of my teen clients who role-play online have been experimenting with gender, sexual, and romantic orientation.

How Not to React to Miley Cyrus on Sexuality and Gender

How Not to by StarblindKing

Carly Puch asks, “Can we have a sensible instead of sensational conversation about Miley Cyrus and gender non-conformity, please?”

Have You Seen a Man’s Heart?

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Have you glimpsed the depth of emotion and feeling that most men hide?

A Prom to De-Gender


This is what happens when 6 young people stop following the rules and start being real.

5 TED Talks That Will Make You a Better Man

Dale Thomas Vaughn speaking at TEDxSMU

You’ll be outside the box, less violent, more culturally aware, with a manspace, and less numb if you watch these videos.

My Experience of “Awkward Gender Moments” Should Matter to People Other Than Me


The seemingly benign moments do in fact matter.

‘Think Different’ About Your Gender… and ‘Theirs’


Patty Beach and Robert Toennis speak on the concept of “Polarity Thinking”, and how it will help you to “Think Different” about gender issues in business.

Do Emotions Have Any Place in Business?

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Why is crying unprofessional, but snark, shame, and rage permitted?

Why Traditional Manhood is Killing Us


How men define manhood can mean the difference between a good life or a lonely death.

Just Let Her Cry – The Biological Reasons Women Shed More Tears

woman crying

Tears. Men fear them. Women need them. Is there a way to find a happy medium you can both live with?

Why Homophobia Should Have No Place In The Supreme Court

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Bigotry, against any group, isn’t funny. And it has no place in our highest court.

All Men Are Inherently Good

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“True harmony and peace requires a balance between the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine.”