The Forgotten Value Of Commitment

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Commitment is not the act of losing your freedom; but exercising it to choose who you want to give your most valuable gifts to.

In Today’s Society, it’s Still Cool to be a Gentleman

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Debates rage around what makes up a gentleman’s life as roles are being redefined in our world. Joe Rutland suggests that being a gentleman is still hip.

The Real Reason Nice Guys Finish Last

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You’re gonna have to do more than be nice to get the girl.

10 Things Men Need To Start Doing To Become Gentlemen Again

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How to be a gentleman in the 21st century, minus any creepy, unintended sexism.

Return of the Gentleman

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Bettina Goodwin rethinks the the word gentleman, laying out 10 defining characteristics of what that means to the modern man.

The Old-School Gentleman and the Modern Independent Woman: Is it a Pairing Destined for Disaster?

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Eduardo García discusses how respect and understanding are the most important aspects of a relationship between Men and Women, no matter how opposite their views might be.

Sex Sells, But At What Cost? How The Media Killed Romance

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A Gen Y writer laments the death of chivalry.

How Moms Can Raise Gentlemen

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Eduardo García believes that modern men can be gentlemen, and that modern women can raise their sons that way.

The Philosophy and Behavior of the Modern Gentleman (And a Note to Ladies)

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Ibrahim Husain thinks there is something to be said for old-fashioned chivalry and gentlemanliness. What do you think?

Yes, Ladies, Gentlemen Actually Exist

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Dale Vaughn would like to take a moment to make a statement on behalf of men everywhere. Good men, gentlemen, Renaissance men are not a myth from some long lost idyllic bygone era. They are everywhere.

Gentlemanly Tips from Superheroes

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“We may not wear a spiffy costume to work or have the ability to scale walls and fly through the air on a webbed string sprung from our wrists, but we have the power of words.”

How to Date Me: A Field Guide for Men

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Confidential to the guy who’s asking Amie Longmire out on a date: she wants you to succeed at dating her. Here’s how.

Jamaican Gentlemen

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For a revolutionary generation of young Jamaican men, the strong and available role models looked like the enemy.

Eulogy for Uncle John

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Jeff Swain remembers his uncle who taught him his first dirty joke, helped raise him, and taught him about being a man.

#45: A Gentle Man

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“I know this not because he fits a definition or has the requisite qualities to be awarded the label good; it’s because he just is.”

#30: Crutches

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“Opening doors for a lady goes a long way when she’s on crutches.”