10 Things Men Need To Start Doing To Become Gentlemen Again


How to be a gentleman in the 21st century, minus any creepy, unintended sexism.

Return of the Gentleman


Bettina Goodwin rethinks the the word gentleman, laying out 10 defining characteristics of what that means to the modern man.

The Old-School Gentleman and the Modern Independent Woman: Is it a Pairing Destined for Disaster?

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Eduardo García discusses how respect and understanding are the most important aspects of a relationship between Men and Women, no matter how opposite their views might be.

Sex Sells, But At What Cost? How The Media Killed Romance


A Gen Y writer laments the death of chivalry.

How Moms Can Raise Gentlemen


Eduardo García believes that modern men can be gentlemen, and that modern women can raise their sons that way.

The Philosophy and Behavior of the Modern Gentleman (And a Note to Ladies)

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Ibrahim Husain thinks there is something to be said for old-fashioned chivalry and gentlemanliness. What do you think?

Yes, Ladies, Gentlemen Actually Exist

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Dale Vaughn would like to take a moment to make a statement on behalf of men everywhere. Good men, gentlemen, Renaissance men are not a myth from some long lost idyllic bygone era. They are everywhere.

Gentlemanly Tips from Superheroes

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“We may not wear a spiffy costume to work or have the ability to scale walls and fly through the air on a webbed string sprung from our wrists, but we have the power of words.”

How to Date Me: A Field Guide for Men


Confidential to the guy who’s asking Amie Longmire out on a date: she wants you to succeed at dating her. Here’s how.

Jamaican Gentlemen


For a revolutionary generation of young Jamaican men, the strong and available role models looked like the enemy.

Eulogy for Uncle John


Jeff Swain remembers his uncle who taught him his first dirty joke, helped raise him, and taught him about being a man.

#45: A Gentle Man

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“I know this not because he fits a definition or has the requisite qualities to be awarded the label good; it’s because he just is.”

#30: Crutches


“Opening doors for a lady goes a long way when she’s on crutches.”

What Women Want


We asked women across the country: What is it you love most about your man? What turns you on? What can’t you live without?

Here, Have My Smelly Jersey

A brief history of soccer uniform swapping.