Sex Education, Please

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The worst case scenario of a poor sex education is not an unhealthy sexual identity. It’s the unplanned birth of a child.

The Myth and False Lesson of Independence

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Why are we afraid of teaching young people how they relate to the network of human interaction? Why do we value our independence over our dependability?

5 Annoying Things Male Teachers Hear

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Teaching is still considered to require or reward qualities we consider inherently feminine.

The Valuable Lesson of Mortality

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The questions we dread are the same ones everyone else dreads. They’re better asked and contemplated in community.

Education Is Unmanly

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The first male in his family to attempt college will often find himself pestered about his masculinity.

“The importance of reading books to kids…they associate it with love.”

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This comment by Kelly on the post Reading Is For Girls

Nobody In My Life That Cares About My Future

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Some young people of the underclasses are so courageous that they don’t even know it.

Top 3 Education Myths and How They Affect Men

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What would happen if we admitted most of what we say to young people about education is false?

Reading Is For Girls

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If you believe reading is emasculating, guess what? You’re right.

Styles of Entitlement

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Our entire culture feels entitled, but men and women have different ways of expressing it.

Boredom Is A Choice

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A young man suggests that a table’s boring and there’s nothing he can do about it.

I Had To Kill A Guy At Work Yesterday

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A student explains why he can’t take the midterm tonight.

5 Ways to be Alternative

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Gint Aras believes it’s easy to be cool. But alternative? That’s a bit more challenging.

Why Cold Weather Makes Me Think About Masculinity

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“Baby, it’s manly outside.” Gint Aras reflects back on the ways he was reminded that he needed to take the cold weather like a man.

I Don’t Babysit

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Why are men expected to participate in their own deprecation?

Why Storytelling Has Always Been Better Than Lecturing, Period

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Our relationships, marriages and the whole of our society would improve if we read more stories.