The Conversation No One Else is Having

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We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century.

“Is there ever a circumstance where the victim shoulders some of the blame/responsibility for their assault? For me the answer is no.”

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This comment is by Nadine, to Archy, on the post “Rape Culture: What it is and how it works?”

Man Runs Through Flames to Save Sleeping Baby

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This is what good looks like.

Happy Stanislav Petrov Day

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What can one good man do? Well, every once in a while, he can save the world.

16 Ways to Not Be a Shit Guy

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Mike Nicholson has some rules that remind him where that line is.

Men’s Goodness Hinges on Hearing Women’s Voices: A Response to Tom Matlack

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Hugo Schwyzer sees a world where men can be better, happier and different by including women’s voices in the telling of stories about men.

A War is a War is a War. Or is it?

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Brandon Ferdig wants to give conditional, not unilateral, support for the troops. And he wonders if that’s okay.

Fired for Family: A Grandfather’s Legacy of Ethics and Values

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One man’s legacy of ethics, integrity, and loyalty remains, not only for his family but also for all the families for whom he willingly gave up his job.

Are We Just a Bunch of Wires?

Kevin Mitnick: Ghost in the Wires

A new book about neuroscience says humans are nothing more than the connections between our brain cells. How does that change what it means to be a good man?

Tucker Max & Me

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Last time I talked to the frat boy he called me names. But two years later everything seems to have changed. Is it possible that the poster boy for being bad has gone…”good man” on us?

“Drink beer, drink protein shakes, box, collect stamps, fix cars…”

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From GirlWritesWhat to Tom Matlack on “My Response to an Open Letter from MRAs”

Reading for All Mankind: Good Men, Manga Style

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A new series of biographies retells the lives of history’s great men—in comic book form.

Undamaged Goods

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Andrea Harris was terrified that when she told her boyfriend about the most traumatic experience of her life, everything would change for the worse.

Child Is the Father of the Man

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It is difficult enough to come to an understanding of what it means to be a man when we cannot even comprehend what it means to be a boy.

Becoming Bugs Bunny

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How to stop trying to be “The Man” and just be a man.

How Grandpa Learned to Be a Man

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Gary Cooper taught our grandfathers what it meant to be a man. Does the sheriff of ‘High Noon’ still have relevance to today’s man?