In My Office, In the Closet


Out on the job? There may be more at stake than a paycheck when trying to answer this question.

The Sting of Gossip is Such a Nasty Thing


Let’s put a stop to this hurtful behavior.

Life Lessons for a Slut-Shamed Man

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Being Caballero on how Slut Shaming challenges men’s sexual and personal development.

Why Can’t We Be Friends? Oh, Wait. We Can!

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JJ Vincent is convinced that men and women can be friends…if other people will let them.

Eleven Things About the South That Really ARE True—and One That’s Not

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JJ Vincent confirms some of those things we believe about the South, and asks us to forget one very important one.

The Psychic and the Drunk

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In the age of Facebook, a casually told tale can live forever. What are the implications of speaking ill of the living?

Dear John: She Doesn’t Want Him …Until She Can’t Have Him


Dear John addresses a repetitive heart breaker, ripped gifts, and a friend spouting personal information.

Sex Is the Word


Online news reports compete for our clicks with entertainment. Are we less well informed than ever?

The Media Wants You Dead


Carl Pettit explains how the stress of breaking news, 24/7, is breaking you down.

Trust Me, I’m Lying: Interview With Ryan Holiday


Media guru Ryan Holiday exploits the chinks inherent in the armor of the news-gathering process, and the fourth estate fights back. Chuck Ross interviews a self-admitted media manipulator.

Tom and Katie Divorcing – What Makes Celeb Marriages So Doomed?

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If you don’t know who Tom and Katie are, I envy you.

Moral Obligations to Customers and Competitors: My Questions

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How far is too far when it comes to comparing your product or service as better than your competitors?

My Husband Does Do That: My Journey Out of the Equal Parenting Closet


Lyla Cicero is the odd woman out in her mothers’ group because her husband is not only a supportive father, he’s an excellent husband. So why does she feel the need to hide it?

Reading for All Mankind: Is Gossip a Good Thing?


You’ll never guess what Andrew Ladd said about Joseph Epstein’s “Gossip.”

NFL Gossip Is More Valuable Than Violence

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Gossip makes the NFL. Where will it all go if we have no season?

Does Reporting on Reporting on Gossip Make it Not Gossip?

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Tom Matlack explains why gossiping about gossip is the same as doing a expose on pornography and then printing the porn as part of the story.