My On-Again, Off-Again Relationship with Shame

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Sometimes I can hear the world insist there’s something essentially wrong about me.

A History of Violence

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Alex Gallo-Brown reflects on one man’s acts of violence, and the impact they have had on his life.

Sudden Downpour

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Angel Garcia’s speaker is “trying to be a good man” even as he finds himself faced with the oldest of temptations.

I Am Proud Of My Masculinity

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Graham Phoenix has felt a need to take control over what he does in life and he has had many reasons to question this over the years. He now realizes that this is an essential aspect of his masculinity, an important part of being a man.

You Don’t Need to Feel Ashamed

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Survivors of sexual abuse can’t simply flip the shame button to the off position. If only it were that easy…

Why Men Experience Post Orgasm Regret

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Dr. Stephen Petteruti explains the brain science behind the emotional downside of the male refractory period.

The Things I Feel Most Guilty About as a Parent

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Every parent has a secret list of things they wish they could be doing better. This is Mike Reynolds’ list…

How Nearly Dying Brought Me Close to My Father

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What nearly freezing to death taught me about my Dad.

You Should Never Feel Guilty for Having a Mental Illness – But Perhaps You Should for How You Choose to Handle it

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Danny Baker believes there is a right way and a wrong way to deal with your own mental illness.

How Not to Cheat

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Marriage is simply hard work. But the good news is that attitude is everything.

30 Ways to Make Yourself Miserable (Along with Everyone Around You)

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Lion Goodman shares the secret techniques to suffering.

‘Don Jon’ a Handful for Many Viewers

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Seamus Matlock on the challenges facing Joseph Gordon Levitt’s film.

I’m Coming Out…of the Happy Closet

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JJ Vincent calls himself a “happy human”. And he feels kind of bad about that.

Your Dad Is In Jail. You Are Not Alone.

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Veronica Grace talks about the challenges of raising two sons while their father was in jail.

I’m a Recovering Video Game Addict

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Kevin Macku faces an addiction to something almost everyone indulges in at some point: video games.

Addiction: We’ve All Hurt Enough Already, Haven’t We?

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Waking up in a jail cell with little to no recollection of how you got there really isn’t anyone’s ides of a good time.