“Use porn to learn where the important parts are and to enjoy watching, but not as a guide to normal bedroom conduct.”

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These are comments by Dr. Adam Sheck, Damien, and FQuattrone on the post “5 Unrealistic Sex Moves Men Learn from Watching Porn”.

“I think it’s playing off the ‘men look funny in womens’ clothing’ thing which is a big part of western society’s current gender disorder.”

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These are comments by RMNZ, Random_Stranger, and wellokaythen on the post “What Would it Look Like if Gender Roles Were Reversed in Advertising? (Video)”.

“Violence is an exclamation mark on a long sentence which starts during childhood and the suppression of boys’ emotions.”

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These are comments by Kris Huson and Dan Bulf on the post “Dear Mr. President, Our Nation’s Boys Need Your Attention”.

“When a man primarily relies on sex as a marital health barometer and validation, he faces more and more rejection.”

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These are comments by goodguys2greatmen and Tom Brechlin on the post “How Do Men Think About Sex?”

“I’ve been in counseling consistently for a few of years. Best decision I ever made, and even though there’s still work to do, I’m in charge of the stories in my life.”

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These are comments by Joe and Daveb on the post “Are You Man Enough for Therapy?”

“It seems the real problem for men isn’t in higher education, but in secondary and primary education.”

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This is a comment by Alastair on the post “Why Do Men Need Male-Only Groups on Campus?”

“Our society expects a man to succeed or fail on his own merit alone, and if a man does not succeed, we cast him aside.”

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This is a comment by Jonathan G on the post “Young Men Committing Violence: How Have We Failed Our Boys?”

“I attended a homophobic, hyper-masculine all-male high school, and I listened to a lot of punk and hardcore as an outlet for my feelings there.”

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This is a comment by Evin Carty on the post “Is Music the Last Sanctioned Outlet for Men to Express Their Emotions?”

Will You Take the #2Dto3D Challenge?

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Make “social” social again by making your 2D online relationships 3D!

When Necessary

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Is our technological ability to kill actually progress?

“Emotions always come out, and often at the worst time. We need to learn to work with them, not tamp them down harder.”

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How did you learn to express your emotions instead of stifle them? Did it take practice or did it come naturally once you figured the toxic logic of expecting men to be eternally stoic?

“I used to be convinced that ‘real men’ should only want sex and hate cuddling, kissing, and talking about love.”

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Men, there are a lot of things that society tells you that you should want. Do you want those things? Or do you want something more, something different?

What Masculinity Looks Like on Pinterest These Days

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We’re just sharing what we see.

These Simple Phrases Are Harming All of Us and Here’s How We Can Stop It (Video)

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Why “man up” and “you play like a girl” are devastating to everyone.

“There are no ‘secrets’ to men or to women. What works 100% of the time is clear, open, and honest communication.”

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This is a comment by Carlo Alcos on the post “20 Things I’ve Learned About Men from Working at Penthouse”.

“My girlfriend would grill me after going to the grocery story. How many affairs can I have in 10 minutes?”

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Edgar Ramsey and Jimbo talk about past girlfriends, sexual compatibility and why jealousy is their top deal breaker in relationships. Have you experienced jealousy in your relationships? Is it at the top of your deal breaker list, or is something else?