What I Wish I Knew Before My First Relationship

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The best part of never having had a girlfriend is that you get to start from the beginning, with a few bits of wisdom from Dr. NerdLove to help you along.

The Myth of What Women Want

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Dr. NerdLove debunks every myth you’ve ever read about what women want, and proposes a simple and effective alternative.

Recovering From Relationship Failure

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Dr. NerdLove reminds guys that even if your relationship fails, YOU are not a failure.

5 Rules To Make Dating Easier On Yourself

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Dr. Nerdlove simplifies the scary process of dating in five simple tips.

How to Deal With Jealousy – A Guide for Guys

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Jealousy isn’t just feeling possessive. Dr. NerdLove investigates the role of self-esteem and masculine identity in how jealous we become.

Invisible Victims: Men in Abusive Relationships

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Harris O’Malley looks at the victims of abuse who are often ignored or even made fun of – men – and reminds them that it is not their fault.

Building Attraction: What Matters More – Looks or Personality?

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Yes, there’s actually science in the debate about whether personality or looks matter more. Dr. NerdLove explains.

The “Problem” with Male Virginity

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Dr. NerdLove talks about the problems with the way we think about male virginity…and how to fix our toxic thinking.

What Can One Man’s Mistake Teach Us About Open Relationships?

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Having an open relationship isn’t as simple as it may seem… Dr. NerdLove breaks down one man’s mistake to help us all learn.

The Surprising Need For Male Intimacy

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Harris O’Malley explains the ways in which real, true friends can not only make you happier, but can greatly improve your health.

The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive

…although I expect to get an “Eye-f*** your way into her pants” marketing email any day now.

Yeah, we know being attractive matters in dating. But did you know there is a LOT you can do to increase your appeal? Dr. NerdLove explains.

Your No-BS Guide to Lasting Longer In Bed

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Dr. NerdLove gets down, dirty and specific on how to last longer in bed (and cope with your insecurities).

How To Be An Amazing Kisser

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Dr. NerdLove offers a primer on how to ace one of the most important moments in a new relationship.

Being Socially Awkward Is Not An Excuse

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Dr. NerdLove explains that it’s not bad to be socially awkward, but it IS bad to refuse to respect people’s boundaries and use social awkwardness as an excuse.

5 Ways To Have An Amazing Relationship

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Now that you’ve found someone you really like, and who likes you back, how will you make it last?

Finding True Confidence

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We all know that confidence is sexy, but you can’t just manufacture it… Or can you? Harris O’Malley breaks it down.