Building A Closer Friendship With Other Men

Men tend to have fewer and fewer close friends as they age. That doesn’t have to be true for you.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

The way many geeks conduct themselves not only reinforces all the negative stereotypes about geeks but it also chases women away.

Discover Your Personal Style

Harris O’Malley offers a 5 step approach to figuring out your look.

Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

Let’s be frank: rejection hurts. Literally. The pain of feeling rejected, outcast or unwanted is real. But it’s not the pain that makes rejection so difficult… it’s the fear.

How to Fix Your Dating Failures

Dating is hard. Dr. Nerd Love has some fool-proof strategies to fix your love life.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

Many geeks carry around their bitterness and resentment at being rejected like a badge of honor.

Nerd Role Models: Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity

Despite the fact that his body looks like it should be carved out of marble, Steve Rogers is actually evidence of the appeal of personality over looks.

The Friend Zone Myth

Harris O’Malley on the cold, hard truth about the friend zone.

5 Simple Ways to Improve Your Social Skills Quickly

From eye contact to recording yourself talking to yourself, Harris O’Malley has some quick tips on how to improve your social presence.

How to Stay Friends After the Break Up

Just because you didn’t work out as lovers, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be friends – even good friends. But being friends after a break-up is tricky and takes work… sometimes more work than the relationship did.

What to do When You’ve Been Cheated on

It’s understandable then that we almost automatically assume that an infidelity is a relationship extinction event; that betrayal of both the intimacy and identity is the crime that can never be forgiven. But should it be?

The Value of Authenticity

Acknowledging your weaknesses and becoming comfortable with them is authenticity. Defining yourself by them and refusing to try to address them, on the other hand, is not.

What the Oregon Shooter’s Manifesto Tells Us About the Dangers of Toxic Masculinity

This form of masculinity has failed us. It doesn’t produce men; it produces anger, rage, and pain. It teaches us that the only way to be a man is to aspire to be the worst in us. We can do better. We can be better.

How to Approach Women (Without Being Creepy)

Respecting somebody’s boundaries, on the other hand, is a mark of respect as well as social calibration. The guy who shows respect is someone who’s going to have far greater success with women.

Why it’s so Hard to Break Up With Someone (Even When You Need to)

Breaking up is hard to do. Even when all the signs are telling you that this person isn’t right, why do we want to stay? Dr. Nerd Love breaks it down.

How to Pick Up Women in Your Social Circle

Harris O’Malley on playing it cool and taking it slow when meeting new women in your social scene.