Harris O’Malley on the cold, hard truth about the friend zone.
Just because you didn’t work out as lovers, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be friends – even good friends. But being friends after a break-up is tricky and takes work… sometimes more work than the relationship did.
It’s understandable then that we almost automatically assume that an infidelity is a relationship extinction event; that betrayal of both the intimacy and identity is the crime that can never be forgiven. But should it be?
Acknowledging your weaknesses and becoming comfortable with them is authenticity. Defining yourself by them and refusing to try to address them, on the other hand, is not.
This form of masculinity has failed us. It doesn’t produce men; it produces anger, rage, and pain. It teaches us that the only way to be a man is to aspire to be the worst in us. We can do better. We can be better.
Respecting somebody’s boundaries, on the other hand, is a mark of respect as well as social calibration. The guy who shows respect is someone who’s going to have far greater success with women.
Breaking up is hard to do. Even when all the signs are telling you that this person isn’t right, why do we want to stay? Dr. Nerd Love breaks it down.
Harris O’Malley on refining your positivity and developing a better attitude.
Harris O’Malley has a new read for the nerds trying their hands at online dating.
Harris O’Malley on looking within and disregarding the things we cannot change in order to become a better us.
Harris O’Malley on how to take responsibility, stay calm, and approach women properly.
Being attractive is more complicated than straight teeth and nice pecs. Harris O’Malley shows us how.
What makes a good man? And how can we make that a consistent goal for men to achieve?