Men Need to Heal Childhood Pain to Find Adult Love and Happiness

We can find more love as adults by healing painful childhood memories that prevent us from fully experiencing love.

Banishing Fear: Finding the Courage to Heal From Codependency

The soulmate of your dreams doesn’t have to be the cellmate of your nightmares.

How to Rebuild Your Wife’s Trust After You’ve Had an Affair

9 steps to help repair your broken marriage.

It Shouldn’t Hurt to be a Child: Sexual Abuse and Healing

Healing from sexual abuse is very much like healing from any kind of trauma or abuse; it happens one day at a time.

Are You Having Fun In Your Relationship?

The vagaries of life can teach us much. Steven Lake had a serious accident that brought a new level of fun into his life.

When Does the Pain of Losing Someone Subside?

Losing someone dear is painful. Yet it is possible to find a piece of what has been lost and begin to heal.

When Do You Decide Your Relationship Needs Help?

What does it take for a man to ask for help when his relationship needs support? A lot apparently.

Doing It Alone

Trying to recover from your trauma alone is a long slow road. But opening up to others can be a huge step towards healing.

The Damage-Free Zone

When we’ve been hurt repeatedly, we need to seek out the damage-free zone for healing.

Why I Stopped Hating the Church

When Steve Austin was sexually abused as a little boy, his parents told no one, and turned to prayer. For years he railed at this injustice and others he found in the church. Finally, he made peace with what he learned from his faith, and forgave what he did not get.

Victim/Survivor vs. Survivor/Thriver

Are you retreating from life or living it?

How To Harness And Heal The Pain Of A Breakup

Jordan Gray says that it only takes a few steps to heal heartbreak, or ANY negative emotion, from our lives.

Are You Dating Someone’s Past?

Theresa Byrne asks how long you’re going to date the person they used to be.

Show Some Love Today—It’s the Only Day There Is

How can we alleviate the sickness and suffering of others just a little—or at all? Feelings Detective gives us insight into personal and collective healing.  – We see all this suffering in the world, and we often want to help. We ask, “Can I do anything?” and then we often feel so helpless in the face […]

Hope for the Holidays

I’m not sure of the source or when I first leaned the phrase, but this holiday season I find myself most grateful for the understanding that “healing is a process, not an event.”

A Father’s Love For His Injured Son

When Theresa Byrne saw the way this father encouraged his injured son, it stopped her in her tracks and hit her right in the feels. — A father’s love. A son’s injury. A year of challenges. From pain came something pure and beautiful. At The Good Men Project we focus on what it means to be a […]