Why The Hardest (And Most Important) Lessons Are Learned In Heartbreak

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How heartbreak can actually be a great thing for you.

Why We Have Regret

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Why regret eats many of us alive.

The 3 Biggest Risks You Take When You Let Someone You Love Go

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Letting go of someone you care for is hard. And, there are risks. Here they are.

For All The Guys Who Wish The Woman Of Their Dreams Never Found The Man Of Hers

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Maybe there IS a friendzone. A young writer sends a dispatch from the ‘zone’. And he’s not happy.

The Harsh Truth About Whether Or Not There Is Someone For Everyone

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Paul Hudson’s take on the ‘soul mate’ concept? Brutal. Why? Read on.

She Dumped Me And Never Gave Me A Second Chance

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And that’s ultimately okay, says Ferrett Steinmetz.

Caring Enough to Fight

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Himay Zepeda discovered something worse than fighting with his girlfriend, not fighting for anything.

“Is Crying Healthy and Cathartic for both Men and Women?”

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9 Important Life Lessons That A Breakup Teaches You

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That rough break-up you just went through? It might’ve been really good for you.

The Single Guy Archives, Vol. 2. Drinks and Smartphones

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The author was single once upon a time, and survived it. And wrote about it. Here, he revisits his misadventures with alcohol and mobile phones.

The Single Guy Archives, Vol 1. Online Dating Adventures

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The author was once a very different, single man. Here, he shares his past dispatches from the front lines of the dating game.

Going Public: Xe Sands Reads an Open Letter to a Lost Girlfriend

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Of all the things to find on Craigslist, Xe Sands found this letter from a grieving boyfriend.

Breaking Away From Her

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Breaking up is not the same as letting go. LeRon Barton talks about how he learned the difference.

Been Through A Messy Break-up? Then You May Suffer From Pistanthrophobia

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Pistanthrophobia is something that you bring on every date you go on after a bad break-up. It prevents you from being able to love fully. Danny Baker explains some simple ways you can get past it.

This is Not a Love Song

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Arne Van Schoors explains that he is “blessed with the talent to feel heartbroken even before the first kiss.”

4 Ways to Move On After a Break Up

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Tamara Star knows how difficult it is to crawl out of bed and back into your own skin after a break-up. Here are four specific ways to move on.