New Orleans: The Site of a Mass Shooting on Mother’s Day That You Probably Never Even Heard About

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What sort of media attention should be devoted to the survivors and perpetrators of a mass shooting at a parade, where 19 people were injured? American media answers with deafening silence.

Ask the Feminist: Feminist Men and Patriarchal Women

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GMP’s resident feminist, HeatherN, tackles more questions from our “Ask the Feminist” series.

Ask the Feminist Answers: Definitions, Recommendations, and Media Violence Against Men

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Resident feminist HeatherN tackles the first round of questions in our new series, Ask the Feminist.

Ask The Feminist

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HeatherN offers herself up for anyone who may have questions about feminism or gender politics. No question too big, no question too small!

Gay Man Kicked Out of Partner’s Hospital Room

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HeatherN examines the case of the man who was denied access to his partner’s hospital room, despite a joint power of attorney agreement.

On Rape and the Culture of Monsters

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The rapists and bystanders in Steubenville committed monstrous acts of inhumanity and cruelty, but Tom Gualtieri insists it is a mistake to call them “monsters”.

Mitt Romney, Affirmative Action, and Binders Full of… What?

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Is Mitt Romney actually a proponent of Affirmative Action? Do Romney’s ‘Binders Full of Women’ actually help make gender a non-issue in hiring?

Gay Gold Medalist Matt Mitcham and His “Friend”

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HeatherN is glad NBC was more open in its coverage of out LGBT athletes this Olympics, but thinks they dropped the ball when they called Diver Matt Mitcham’s partner of 6 years his “friend”.

A Gay Man Married a Woman, and That’s Fine

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HeatherN salutes Mormon husband and father Josh Weed for his honesty about being gay but choosing to marry and have children with a woman, without condemning others who choose differently.

Frank Ocean: Coming Out Differently

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HeatherN muses on the very different way in which Hip-Hop star Frank Ocean came out, and wonders how this coming out reflects homophobia in the hip-hop industry.

If You’re Into Vanilla Sex, the Kink Community Has a Lesson For You

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HeatherN asserts that those who like vanilla sex have a lot to learn from those in the kink community.

Celibacy: When Same-Sex Attraction is a Cross

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HeatherN comments on the case of a Catholic man who remains celibate due to his same-sex attraction.

Queer Dictionary Revisited

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HeatherN follows up on some hotly debated aspects of her Queer Dictionary, and shares what she’s learned from commenters.

Open Thread: Is “Biological Sex” Actually Biological?

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Are sex and gender really the same thing? Either both culturally constructed or both biological in origin?

Spelling Queer with L, G, B, & T (and A, I, P…) Part 3

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HeatherN offers the final installment of a “Queer Dictionary” to help understand the terminology surrounding sexuality and gender.