Phil Robertson Reminds Me Why I’m a Humanist

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Dear Phil Robertson: A moral code based upon anything other than compassion for others is not really moral. Now, ask God to forgive you for the harm you’ve caused.

Guys Try Complimenting Each Other… And It’s Weird But Awesome

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It was more uncomfortable than watching guy friends saw each other naked for the first time (but also way more sweet).

The Unexpected, Ignored, Non-Virtue of Being Gay

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Memory isn’t just a Throwback Thursday sentimental indulgence. Often it’s a backward glance that can propel us forward.

6 Weird Double Standards For Men (and Women!) in Dating

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From expecting guys to pick up the tab to asking women to be “sexy” but not “sexual”, Joanna Schroeder is sick of the hypocrisy.

A Gay Dad Reflects on His Gay Son, and the Legacy of Alan Turing

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Patrick Roth is dad to a gay son, who is unaware how hard his dad had it in a homophobic world. Dad got his own dose of perspective when he saw a film about Alan Turing. Here are his thoughts on a world evolving.

Ignorance, Incognito

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As a straight white guy, I know who’s secretly bigoted. Because they tell me.

Love Has No Labels

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Watch what happens when the skeletons step out from behind the screen.

Failure—What’s in a Word?

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Raoul Wieland takes a long, hard look at failure’s negative associations and how they hinder success.

Why Do We Murder the Beautiful Friendships of Boys?

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An epidemic of loneliness is killing millions of American men. Here’s why.

Why Be a Premium Member? Just Look at What We Have Helped to Change

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We’re the guys who eat stereotypes for lunch. So just what is it we are trying to change?

Study Blames Craigslist Sex for Increased HIV Rates—But the Problem is Much Bigger

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Don’t blame the Internet for increasing rates of HIV in urban areas. Blame a lack of adequate sex education.

It’s Not Hip to Delete Your Tweets

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You can sanitize your Twitter account, but it won’t remove the stain of prejudice.

The High Cost of Michigan’s Anti-Gay Culture

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When you tell LGBT folks that they aren’t welcome, and not necessarily even safe, you’re setting your state up for failure – financially and socially. Rohin Guha explains.

Why Our Kids Need to Get Back to Love Instead of the New “A-B-Cs” of Sunday School

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Caleb Woods looks back to a day when the values in Christian Churches were a lot simpler. He wants our kids to return to the same message about Love that he learned.

6 Ways ‘Tough Guys’ Are Actually Weak

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Thomas Fiffer redefines strength by finding the weakness in “tough guy” masculinity.

A Letter To My Boyfriend’s Homophobic Family

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A young man sounds off on the hurt a family has caused to the man he loves. It was a gift worth returning: the “gift” of conditional love. Here is what he has to say to them.