A Kinder, Gentler Homophobia

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Homophobia hidden behind “helpful words” and guidance “to be kind” is still hurtful and dangerous, no matter who’s saying it.

Straight Guys Break Social Norms and Talk About Which Guys They Think Are Hot

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Are we busting stereotypes about masculinity here?

Meet Cassandro, Mexico’s Lucha Libre Drag Queen Superstar

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Throw all of your stereotypes about wrestlers, drag queens, and gay men out the window.

Why Do You Call Me “Fa**ot”?

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Warren Blumenfeld wants to know who is uncomfortable in whose skin? (Here’s a hint, it is not Warren!)

Ebolaphobia and the Contagion of Fear

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“Germ” based fear leaves racism, sexism, and homophobia in its wake.

A Letter to the People Who Hate Us Because of What Happened to Our Gay Son

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Linda Robertson addresses the hate she has been receiving surrounding the recent death of her son.

The Ugly Side of the Beautiful Game

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Corruption, Sexism, and Racism in Soccer. Will Ooi calls out FIFA and its leadership.

A Gay Dad Sent This Letter To a Mother Who Wished Death on Her Disabled Lesbian Daughter

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A mother was caught on tape gleefully wishing death on her disabled lesbian daughter. Dad Rob Watson wrote the mother a letter hoping to reach her heart, on the chance she has one.

Your Parents Say Okay

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In this poem from his brand new book, award-winning poet Stephen Mills offers a stirring commentary on same-sex marriage, token acceptance, and the politics of “normal.”

I Love You, Man: 5 Tips For Stepping Into Modern Masculinity

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Dan Mahle grew up not being able to say “I love you” because he thought the words were too emotional. Thankfully, times have changed.

Guyhood Call for Submissions: Dating, Sex, Love, and Intimacy

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Guys, it’s about time we had “the talk.”

How We All Pay the Price for Homophobia

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A loss of sight causes Warren Blumenfeld to gain new insight into homophobia, and the length of its effects.

Watch These Ads That Manipulate Men

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Do advertisers play on male fear and shame to sell products? You bet they do.

Shame: Is GMP Part of the Problem?

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This is not a rhetorical question.

Ending Bullying: Being an UPstander, No Matter Who You Are

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Jamie Utt wonders how many people stay silent in the face of bullying, and helps us teach kids to be UPstanders, not bystanders.

“My Dad Says You’re A Fag”

Raymond Miller endured a lot of hate for being gay, but the reason behind the hate was sometimes surprising.