Mark McCormack: “We do no-one any favors if we only fight prejudice that is, for some, yesterday’s battle.”
Gay People Need to Stop Having Sex with Republican Homophobes, No Matter How Hot They Are
February 20, 2012 By 35 Comments
Steve Locke, with a passionate rant about guys who “can’t come out.”
Sexual Agon
February 16, 2012 By 3 Comments
You are not always the person your parents think you are. In fact, you are not always the person you think you are.
Marc Bouwer’s Coming Out Story: ‘When I Started Having Thoughts About Boys, I Thought I Was Going to Hell’
February 14, 2012 By 1 Comment
Marc Bouwer talks about growing up during Apartheid, fearing the apocalypse every time it thundered, and waking up with stars in his eyes.
‘How Gay’ Has ‘Stay[ed] White’ for Over a Decade
January 26, 2012 By 6 Comments
Homosexuality isn’t just a white thing, Josh Friedberg writes, and it’s up to us to challenge the stereotypes that continue to misinform and generalize.
Dear John: I Thought I Was Straight
January 12, 2012 By 3 Comments
Why do I have feelings for another man if I’m straight? Should I tell my friend they ruined my wedding? How do I let people know my husband passed away?
Why Can’t Straight Men Experiment, Too?
January 8, 2012 By 141 Comments
Nikki Brown wants to know why straight men don’t seem to have the same rights when it comes to sexual experimentation.
Dear John: I Can’t Stop Stealing
January 5, 2012 By 2 Comments
Why can’t I stop taking what’s not mine? How do I help my fiancé if he is in denial about his health? Why won’t my boyfriend be intimate?
Masculinity Isn’t Good—It’s Great
January 5, 2012 By 30 Comments
Men’s roles are changing and becoming flexible, Quiet Riot Girl writes, which is for the best.
Is Homophobia a ‘Phobia?’
December 28, 2011 By 81 Comments
What if straight men are more afraid of similarities than differences?
A Girl Who Likes Boys Who Like Boys: The Joy of Dating Gay Men
November 30, 2011 By 32 Comments
Perhaps the only problem with dating gay men is that they’re gay.
On Fear Of Men Being Vulnerable: A Commenter Discusses “What If It Had Been a Girl in the Shower?”
November 21, 2011 By 6 Comments
“What I’m most interested in is the idea that the same-sex nature of abuser and victim somehow caused a sense of shame within the witnessed that ran deep enough for him to run away and keep it a secret.”
Dudes and Dildos
November 5, 2011 By 202 Comments
Why don’t straight men like anal sex? Maria Pawlowska’s answers might surprise you.
Dear John: Why Can’t I Call Him ‘Gay?’
November 3, 2011 By 6 Comments
Is there any harm posing naked for my boyfriend? Why didn’t he ask my permission before bringing people over? Should I have to put up with hypocrisy in my work place?
A Daughter and a Daughter-In-Law
November 2, 2011 By 9 Comments
As a parent, you learn to let your kid become his or her own person. But what if, in rolling with the punches, you’re hit with something unexpected?
Vocalyze
“When I was in a men’s group in 1972, I distinctly remember feeling edgy when we would hug.”
“My son and daughter keep reminding me that things are changing.” The times they are a changin’ (comment and Marco Magnani video cover of Bob Dylan song.)