7 Areas of Coupled Life You Must Discuss

Andrew P. Smiler, PhD, says you can have a satisfying long term relationship by discussing these 7 areas of coupled life with your partner. Staying with someone for the long term – married, cohabiting, or some other status – is complicated. Anyone can tell you that. Disagreements are inevitable. The key to happiness is talking […]

Kim Davis, Would You Mind Terribly Just Going Away?

Did Davis collect marriage licenses issued to gay couples during her jail hitch and issue new ones that removed all mention of the Rowan County clerk’s office and its staff? If true, the charge could land Davis back in the federal court.

How Vocalizing Sexual Fluidity Exemplifies the Millennial Generation’s Courage

The realizations of our own attractions come when people accept others’ ‘unconventional’ sexualities as normal. Open-mindedness is on the rise.

Words of Hope for a Young Boy Who Is Gay

“I’m homosexual and I’m afraid about what my future will be and that people won’t like me.”

Seinfeld, Political Correctness, and Purity Tests

The online Social Justice movement has admirable goals, but it needs to stop applying purity tests to celebrities.

Could You Be Gay And Not Know It?

Sexual identity is a personal experience, regardless of behavior, or how others define us.

I’m Not Gay, But I’d Be Proud If You Thought I Was

Helping out at the Gay Games taught Ty Phillips that we all have heavy lifting to do when it comes to gay rights.

Brain Sex: Gender, Sexuality and Cultural Roles

Neuroscience teaches us what it means to be human.

What Causes Homosexuality? Who Cares?

People have been claiming causes for hundreds of years. But does it really matter here, and now?

Charles Blow: “Up From Pain,” Sex Abuse, and Bisexuality

In his memoir, New York Times’ Op-Ed Columnist Charles M. Blow revealed not only his own startling truths, but some truths we all need to examine.

How My Friend Came Out To Me

LeRon Barton reflects on homeboys, hip-hop, and homosexuality in the hood.

A Gay Dad Comes Out, “There’s Nothing Left in My Closet”

Over a year ago Robb, a dad and pastor, came out as gay. Here are his thoughts now after time has gone by and he has nothing left in his closet.

Dating a Newly-Out Gay Man: 7 Pros and 7 Cons

Heaven on earth or hell waiting to happen? Newly out gay men are always full of surprises.


Christopher Stephen Soden explores the uncertainty of queer youth–and perhaps youth in general–in this vivid poem.

A Straight Man Asks His Friends, If You Could Choose, Would You Be Straight or Gay?

Chris Thompson was moved to outrage by the hate parents showed when their son came out. And he was moved to tears when he asked his friends, “If you could choose … “

Teaching Not Just Sex, But Good Sex

Sex education doesn’t teach us how to have good sex and relationships, rather how to roll the condom onto a banana and how to avoid contracting a sexually transmitted infection.