10 Things Men Need To Start Doing To Become Gentlemen Again


How to be a gentleman in the 21st century, minus any creepy, unintended sexism.

The Best Things About Married Sex

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Of course, there’s a lot to like about sex, but when it comes to committed relationships, the potential for intimacy really stands out.

So, What Do You Do?


Andy Smithson wonders what would happen if we got honest when we answer the question, “What do you do?

Married Sex is the Best. Honest.

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Lady Chatterley answers the question, “What’s the best thing about married sex?”

6 Things a CrossFitter Won’t Tell You (but maybe they should)


Alan Bishop gets brutally honest about some CrossFit secrets he wishes some were let in on.

“How can anyone have an actual relationship while sexting others?”


This comment by Justin on the post “I miss You. U Wanna Meet Up?”: Breaking Up with Our Sexters

What Would You Do If the Whole World Thought You Were a Hero For Something You Didn’t Do?


Do you live the rest of your life knowing you are a beloved and successful fraud or do you risk cultural infamy and admit to the truth?

Is It Time To Kiss & Break Up With Make-Up?

Photo: Flickr / Average Jane

When make-up becomes a mask that we use to hide behind, is it even possible to have an authentic relationship with ourselves or anyone else?

2 Questions My Girlfriend Shouldn’t Ask Me (But Does So Anyway)


The author knew better. But he answered two of his girlfriend’s questions honestly. He lived to write about it.

The Power of Not Knowing


Three of the hardest words in the English language to say out loud. No, not those: I don’t know.

Five Lies It’s OK to Tell Your Children

Five Lies It's OK by Thomas Fiffer

Shocking Revelation: The Good Men Project’s Ethics Editor lies to his kids.

“The best reason remains ‘it’s so terribly complicated’” [What Reason Do You Have for Not Cheating?]

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This comment was by Lars Fischer on the post 1 Reason Why I Don’t Cheat.

You Don’t Have to be Perfect to be a Mentor

2-Men Who Mentor

Attempting to become a better person, I’ve introduced several new practices into my life; the most impactful of them all thus far has been being a mentor.

1 Reason Why I Don’t Cheat

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The editor of the Good Men Project’s Marriage section explains why he doesn’t cheat.

Reddit, Answered It: She Kissed A Girl, And Lied About It

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He caught his longtime girlfriend making out with another girl, who was a good friend. More than once. Now what?

Can a Marriage Stay Alive if We Lie About Love?

The Lie, Uzi Peretz, divorce, ending relationships, ending marriage, growing apart

Uzi Peretz considers how the lies we tell ourselves, and one another, impact our relationships