A Culture of Hypermasculinity is Driving Sexual Assault in the Military

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Michael Crawford explains that when masculinity is defined by power and aggression, sexual violence is the result.

Life Below The Mason-Dixon: It’s Not What You Might Think


Article after article frames the South as backwards and ignorant. You would have to go there to know the truth.

Meet the Teen Diving Champ With Two Dads

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“When people ask me what it is like to be straight and to have gay parents, I tell them ‘It’s great!’”

30 Relationship Tips for Guys—From Two Girls Under 10

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Thank heaven for little girls for without them, what would little boys do?

The Science of Saving Marriage—Paul Friedman’s Great Experiment

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Love is everlasting, and hope springs eternal. But can marriage survive? Despite the odds, Paul Friedman, founder of The Marriage Foundation, vows to make marriage work.

Back From Bulimia – A Man’s Story

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Adam Edgerton explains that when we don’t love ourselves, we are desperate for love and validation from someone else. We will do anything to have it and everything to keep it.

Gay Men Are Losing Our Pizazz, and It’s a Problem… or Something?

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Adam Hunt responds to an Esquire article complaining that the gays on a new HBO show are not “fun” enough. In other words, good-bye stereotypes.

10 Trends This Guy Hates

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I’d like to talk about the articles which claim to tell women what men do and do not like. So, here’s a list of trends I actually hate.

Dads, You Gotta Try This! (Squirt Gun + Hot Water + Cold Weather)

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Just when you thought there was nothing good about this ridiculously cold weather, a new amazing science trick for dads (and moms!) pops up on YouTube!

Hot Wife, Hot Life?

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There are a million things men love about their wives besides their beauty. Lady Chatterley encourages us to share those things here

Gay Dudes, Can You Just Not?


Parker Marie Molloy would like to remind the guys that throwing around the word “tranny” is right up there with throwing around the word _____.

Who is in a Gay Family?


When Amelia is asked if she is a “gay parent”, she realizes that a “gay family” could mean almost anything.

Sometimes the Right Things Go Viral – Racism, The GAP and Standing up For What’s Right

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What do you do when you see graffiti that symbolizes a too-common form of hate? If you’re Arsalan Iftikhar, you take a photo of it, and make it go viral.

I Get to Define My Own Family

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When Amelia’s oldest son was in kindergarten, he learned that not all families are like his…and that there is no “correct” family.

When Marriage Isn’t for Her

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Can we get past the stereotype that marriage is about subverting all your dreams and desires?

What It Feels Like to Be On Welfare

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Brenda Della Casa and her grandfather survived on only $500 per month. Eventually, the hard-working man realized they’d need some help. Next time someone says welfare is for the lazy, think of them.