“Help! I hate my husband.”

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The most popular HuffPost over the weekend said exactly what I did about men and women, and got the opposite response.

Rape Culture: Men, Women, and Power

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The only people who think all men are rapists, Soraya Chemaly writes, are, well, rapists.

In Defense of Storytelling

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Lisa Hickey thinks we need more stories like Hugo Schwyzer’s, not fewer.

What I Learned From Twittergate

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We should all tell our stories and listen to others, Tom Matlack writes, as it’s the only way to move forward.

140 Characters Is Not Enough

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Joanna Schroeder wants people to hear and be heard. And it doesn’t always happen on Twitter.

The God of Gender Wars Is Laughing

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If you can’t get past the anger, Megan Rosker writes, nothing will change.

Childish Men and Angry Women

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If you’re an outspoken man, and disagree with the feminist consensus, Dominic Falcao writes, there’s maelstrom coming—but it’s OK to be bewildered.

Can Founders Be Criticized on The Good Men Project?

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Justin Cascio believes there is a difference between an attack and a criticism. This is his criticism.

Words Are Not Fists: What the Twitter Blow-Up Tells Us About Men, Women, and Anger

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“One of [the] childish things adult men must put away is the need to deflect, belittle, or exaggerate women’s anger.”

Is Feminism to Blame for Hook-Up Culture? A Debate

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Neely Steinberg and Hugo Schwyzer discuss how their personal histories have shaped their individual world views.

The (Quiet) Feminist Revolution

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Joanna Schroeder advocates both individual responsibility and an understanding of the realities of the society we live in.

Serious Discussion is Not “Wrath of Feminists”

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Hugo Schwyzer responds to a Twitter debate.

“The Wrath of The Feminists”: A Discussion of Masculinity, Gender, and Feminism

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A Twitter discussion @jennpozner, @TMatlack, @hugoschwyzer @amandamarcotte @shiratarrant, @feministfather, @therealroseanne and others.

Rapists, I Have Known

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Lisa Hickey believes that the “presumption of male guilt” is equally damaging to both men and women.

In Rape Culture, All Men Are Guilty Until Proven Innocent

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Why do good men have to pay for other men’s bad behavior? Hugo Schwyzer explains the answer he learned in his first Women’s Studies class.

Men Need to Mentor Women Too

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Men in positions of power need to overcome their fears, Hugo Schwyzer writes, and start making themselves available to members of the opposite sex.