Rapists, I Have Known

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Lisa Hickey believes that the “presumption of male guilt” is equally damaging to both men and women.

In Rape Culture, All Men Are Guilty Until Proven Innocent

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Why do good men have to pay for other men’s bad behavior? Hugo Schwyzer explains the answer he learned in his first Women’s Studies class.

Men Need to Mentor Women Too

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Men in positions of power need to overcome their fears, Hugo Schwyzer writes, and start making themselves available to members of the opposite sex.

Ladies, Let’s Stop Declaring War on Men

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No matter what kind of animosity exists between men and women, we must put the guns away, writes Nicole Jonson, and realize we can’t live without one another.

The Role Roundtable: Fertility Anxiety And Relationships

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Nicole Rodgers and Hugo Schwyzer discuss the angst and the other problems associated with trying to have children.

What if They Had a Gender War and No One Came

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This is what Lisa Hickey thinks of the so-called gender battle: we’re all in it together.

It’s Not the End of Men, and We Still Have Work to Do

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Men and women should celebrate where we are, Hugo Schwyzer writes, but we still need to keep moving forward.

Why ‘Losing It’ Is Sometimes the Best Term for First Sex

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Despite the negative connotations, Hugo Schwyzer writes, using the term “losing your virginity” actually makes a lot of sense.

Michael Kimmel on my Attraction to Lesbians

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Hugo Schwyzer agrees that the “possibility of equality” is indeed erotic.

I Married a Lesbian

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Hugo Schwyzer tries to discern why even after several failed relationships with lesbians or lesbian types, his heart still flutters around short hair and strong jaws.

Saved From Sexual Relapse

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Sometimes a sexually promiscuous, unfaithful, bisexual woman is just what you need.

Are Women Hardwired to Compete With Their Mothers-in-Law?

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Hugo Schwyzer looks at the role men play in the dynamic between daughter-in-law’s and mother-in-law’s.

Can Young Girls Really Seduce Older Men?

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No, it’s just another lazy excuse of male weakness, writes Hugo Schwyzer.

To Prevent Future Penn States, We Need to Celebrate the Good in Male Sexuality

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Hugo Schwyzer agrees we should be talking more. But let it be about what healthy, joy-filled, life-enhancing male sexuality looks like.

Resist the Old Boys and Their Ways

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Hugo Schwyzer argues that the gender preference of the seasoned elite fosters leniency and protection in the name of loyalty.

Why Cougars Are Better Than Silver Foxes

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It’s not easy to date a younger woman when you’re an older man, Hugo Schwyzer writes.