I’m an Otherwise Straight Man (Who Fell in Love with His Best Friend)

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It didn’t matter if it didn’t fit my identity. It didn’t matter if it didn’t fit my sexuality. It just mattered if it brought me love.

Question of the Day: What Defines You, as a Man?

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Is it your brute strength, your cunning wit, your charm, or your ability to change a baby with one hand while drinking coffee with the other?

Bearing the Burden of the Beard

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‘Passion’ is the story of Jack Passion. And his beard.

Video: I Gave Up Women for 30 Days and This is What Happened

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After realizing I was using women to fill an internal void, I gave them up completely and discovered three surprises about myself.

Men and Women in Midlife Crisis: What’s It Gonna Cost You?

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Here’s all you need to know about the dreaded midlife crisis.

3 Ways How Every Man Can Be Sexy

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If a man chooses to, he can find his inner sex symbol. Here’s how.

How to Deal With Jealousy – A Guide for Guys

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Jealousy isn’t just feeling possessive. Dr. NerdLove investigates the role of self-esteem and masculine identity in how jealous we become.

Love in Secondary Inspection

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A. X. Ahmad is detained by Homeland Security at the airport — and finally gets to really know his fiancée.

The Moment I Became a Grown-Up

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Shadley Grei describes the day he stopped being a kid and introduced himself to the father who had ignored him for eighteen years.

Time to Reflect: Inner Work on Purim

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Jacob Max Winkler offers this contemplative piece, inviting you to see where you might fit in the story of Purim. How might you grow by considering these things this weekend?

What Are the 10 Questions to Ask Your Sons Once the Superhero Cape Comes Off?

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After our sons grow past the superhero phase, are we having conversations to help them with their new identity or leaving them alone to figure it out?

Even After 39 Years of Marriage, It Still Doesn’t Define Me

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There’s a stereotype out there that men lose their identities when they get married. Tom Brechlin disagrees.

Guyhood Relaunch & Call for Submissions

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“Take note 18-24 year olds, the Guyhood section has returned. Help The Good Men Project define your experience.”

Hunter Hayes Knows You’re Not Invisible

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Innovative campaign makes country artist’s new single a fan collaboration.

When Your Mojo’s Gone

The author. When he had his Mojo.

Simms Jr. had sex appeal. He thought. But it hasn’t seemed that way, recently. Here, he examines the disappearance of his mojo.

Once a New Dad, Always a New Dad

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Seth Burleigh asked some fellow fathers, “At what point am I no longer a new dad?” The insights surprised him.