A 23 Point Love Contract To Bulletproof Your Relationship

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Jordan Gray says that you can massively improve your relationship by signing this contract with your partner. When you read it, you’ll understand why.

Inspiration Unpacked: Are You Hiding in Shadow?

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It took an exploration of the meaning behind Tool’s “Forty Six & 2” to bring Chris Hicke out of the shadow into the glory of perfect imperfection.

Men Are From Mars? What John Gray Got Wrong About Women


Jordan Gray has a bone to pick with his (non-related) colleague John Gray. Is the vulnerability shaming really necessary?

Why You Need To Date Someone Who Scares You


Jordan Gray says that the best loves are the ones that drag out all of your emotional demons.

Caring Enough to Fight

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Himay Zepeda discovered something worse than fighting with his girlfriend, not fighting for anything.

The Rapiest Email Ever Could Have Influenced Me


Cameron Conaway on how the email we’re all hating very well could have influenced his behavior.

Good Men Can Be Their Own Worst Enemies


Men, we have met the enemy, and he is us.

“No one has the right to control another’s fantasies.”


This is a comment by Archy on the post “Why Do Married Men Watch Porn?”

“‘Am I Good Enough?’ is a question rooted in insecurity and ego. The answer is and always should be ‘No’.”

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