“I WILL change my masculine frame for ME because it is who I want to be.”

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This is a comment by Steve Horsmon on the post “How Do Men Think About Sex?”

Sleeping Together: The Good Life’s Top Ten in March

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Readers of The Good Life flock to the truth about sleeping together, and what we really want from women.

What Men Really Want

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Men may think what they want is shockingly antisocial, but digging deeper reveals that what men truly want is actually quite ordinary and healthy.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence [Video]

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Book author and TED Talk speaker Esther Perel shares the secret to desire in a long-term relationship.

It’s Just Sex, Dammit!

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Can we allow ourselves to admit that sex just isn’t as important as we make it out to be?

Ten Tips for the Postpartum Dad

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A new baby can turn your world upside down. Signs of paternal postpartum depression and more from Active Duty Dad.

(Co) Sleeping with the Enemy

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Adrian Kulp thinks it’s time to get his bed back. Easier said than done.

3 Tools to Reignite Romance Before Valentine’s Day

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If we don’t master these tools by Valentine’s Day, we can keep working on them, as the Dr. might suggest.

“I have had several close non-sexual non-romantic relationships with women. How could you just rule out half the population?”

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We all have different opinions on the “When Harry Met Sally” debate. Have you had platonic relationships with women throughout your life? Are we all destined to be attracted to each other? Or is there true friendship available that we’ve all ignored?

When Did You Figure Out What Marriage Isn’t?

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An informal survey among married (and divorced, and separated, and remarried) men.

Learning To Be Alone Again

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After ten years of marriage, Nathan Graziano is finding being alone a different challenge from his old single days.

Shame Is Why We Fight

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When a man can’t soothe his woman’s anxieties, he has failed to protect her. And in our culture of masculinity, failed men are expendable.

What Marriage Isn’t

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Conversations about marriage continue to show that we fabricate romantic myths that set us up for disappointment.

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The holidays can leave us desperate for human connection.

“I have learned so much from the conversation at The Good Men Project.”

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This is a comment by Carla Smith on the post “Why Our Boys Need The Good Men Project”.

“It is totally okay for men have close, loving relationships with other guys.”

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This is a comment by Miguel on the post “Close Male Friendship Appreciation”.