One Simple Statement Can Un-Stick Your Stuck Relationship

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A helpful video from Jayson Gaddis, who works with couples day in and day out on these issues.

One Tip for How to De-Escalate a Fight With Your Partner

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…it’s probably not what you’re expecting.

How I’m Learning To Really Listen To My Wife – In 13 Steps

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“So after ten years, I think I’m finally learning how to listen to my wife. I mean listen. Really listen. I’m humbled at the possibility of turning a corner here.”

Why You’d Rather Have Sex With Someone Else Than Work On Your Marriage


Jayson Gaddis examines some very unexpected causes of infidelity, and gives tips on how to prevent and heal from them.

Being a Backbone for My Kids


Our kids mirror our moods. Jayson Gaddis looks inward when his kids are struggling.

Why Two-Income Families Are Happier Than Single Earner Households


Here’s why two incomes can lead to more fulfillment and lower stress.

How Porn Impacts Real Intimacy and Real Relationships

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Jayson Gaddis wants to talk about porn use, and the impact it has on your real life relationships.

10 Signs I’m Disconnected From Myself

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Jayson Gaddis knows when he’s disconnected. And knows what to do to connect back again.

20 Dads Share Their Favorite Children’s Books

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What books do you enjoy reading with your children?

My Son Wears Pink, He’s Either Gay or a Girl Right?

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Jason Gaddis insists that when we discourage feminine traits in boys and instead only promote outdated masculine ones, we put a gender straightjacket on our boys.

The Sex Lives of New Dads

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Jayson Gaddis’s life changed big time after having one kid, then two.

Why Aren’t More Older Men Showing Up For Younger Men?


Rick Belden shares some of his thoughts on why elders seem to be largely absent from the lives and experience of younger men.

Bandit’s Dad Was A Smokey

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Burt Reynolds did not feel secure in his manhood without confirmation from his father. Are you still waiting for yours?

A Modern Day Hero’s Journey Is What Today’s Boy Needs to Become a Man

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The entire reason we have such a thing as a quarter life crisis, and later a mid-life crisis, is because boys and young men lack meaningful rite-of-passage experiences.

Hotsagram: Addictive For No Good Reason

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Joanna Schroeder talks about the newest incarnation of ‘Hot or Not’ and muses on whether objectification like this is good for society.

Dear Men and Women, I Won’t Apologize to You


Jayson Gaddis believes there is a better way than blaming or apologizing to the other sex.