Jealousy & Suffering

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We all get jealous at times. The trick is to realize, and then overcome it. Leo Babauta tells us how.

What To Do When Your Girlfriend Has A Lot Of ‘Guy Friends’

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How to not freak out about your girlfriend’s platonic male buds.

Back Off My Wife! My Jealousy of a Little Girl

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Doug Zeigler used to get frustrated and angered by his daughter’s constant attempts to get his wife’s attention. But then he saw what was really the issue: his jealousy.

The Seven Deadly Sins of a Relationship

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Leo Babauta is back. Here, the married writer/lifestyle guru gives advice on what not to do in a relationship.

Why Gay Men Hate to Love (and Love to Hate) Muscle Bears

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Ryan Shea wonders if it’s self-esteem, envy, bitterness, or something else dividing this community.

The Secret Reason Most Romantic Relationships Fall Apart

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Lori Lothian reveals the hidden ingredient that spoils most romantic unions.

The J Word

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Susie and Otto Collins break down one of the most toxic things to your sex life and relationship

Rock and Unroll: 4 Ways to Be Unloved

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Orin Hahn explores the things that ruin good relationships

Stivers Cartoons: A Toast to Envy

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A Toast to Envy

Gossip and TV Dinners: Scenes From a Divorce #6

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Steve Axelrod remembers the pressures that small-town gossip put on his marriage, and jealousy affected his life after marriage.

The Dichotomies of Open Relationships

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Natalie Vartanian talks about how to explore beyond monogamy.

The Dude Sleeping with My Wife

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Co-sleeping pushes Nathan Graziano to the couch. Is it sour grapes or true love?

Five Things You Might Not Know About Polyamory

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Poly educator Deborah Anapol addresses some common misconceptions about the polyamorous lifestyle

“My girlfriend would grill me after going to the grocery story. How many affairs can I have in 10 minutes?”

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Edgar Ramsey and Jimbo talk about past girlfriends, sexual compatibility and why jealousy is their top deal breaker in relationships. Have you experienced jealousy in your relationships? Is it at the top of your deal breaker list, or is something else?

“How Can I Improve My Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Family?”

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My boyfriend’s family was so close to his former fiancée. Will they ever accept me?

Dear John: Dad Wants to GPS-Stalk His Teen Daughter

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Stalker dad, a troubled marriage considers swinging, and an old friend of a spouse reappears, to the letter writer’s dismay.