Co-sleeping pushes Nathan Graziano to the couch. Is it sour grapes or true love?
Five Things You Might Not Know About Polyamory
April 11, 2013 By 122 Comments
Poly educator Deborah Anapol addresses some common misconceptions about the polyamorous lifestyle
“How Can I Improve My Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Family?”
February 8, 2013 By 1 Comment
My boyfriend’s family was so close to his former fiancée. Will they ever accept me?
Dear John: Dad Wants to GPS-Stalk His Teen Daughter
February 2, 2013 By 3 Comments
Stalker dad, a troubled marriage considers swinging, and an old friend of a spouse reappears, to the letter writer’s dismay.
“My single male friends have been making comments toward my wife. Am I being overly jealous?”
February 1, 2013 By 26 Comments
Paul’s wife has a lot of single male friends, which he has no problem with, but he’s been hearing weird things said to her that makes him uncomfortable. He wants to know: is he being too jealous?
The Kids May Be All Right, But I’m Not: My Ex-Wife’s Boyfriend Is Moving In
January 21, 2013 By 4 Comments
After the news comes up over lunch with his kids, Paul Schneider finds himself digesting the news uneasily.
In Defense of Psycho Bitches from Hell
December 30, 2012 By 222 Comments
Men’s stories of the too-good-to-be-true, sexy girlfriend who became unhinged are universal, and universally lacking in sympathy for the woman’s position.
Dear John: Haunted By A Hook-Up
December 5, 2012 By 1 Comment
Dear John addresses a bisexual hook-up from the past, a jealous coworker, and an anonymous note about body odor.
My Husband Live-Chats with Porn Girls
November 9, 2012 By 47 Comments
Watching porn is one thing. Live -chatting with sex workers is another.
Open Thread: Is Jealousy Okay in a Relationship?
October 8, 2012 By 24 Comments
In this video clip, Christopher Ryan explains the problem with jealousy in relationships. Do you agree?
What’s in a Mane?
September 22, 2012 By 5 Comments
Greg White’s Delilah was a leather-clad hairdresser named Lorenzo.
“Why can’t we feel safe enough in our intimate relationships to reveal all of ourselves?”
September 19, 2012 By 2 Comments
This is a comment by Nick, mostly on the post “Why Is My Boyfriend Lying to Me About His Past?”.
Dear John: Why Doesn’t He Know I’m “The One”?
September 7, 2012 By 9 Comments
This week Dear John talks about “the one”, Facebook friends after divorce, and sales-y friends.
“Will Having an Open Marriage Backfire on Me?”
July 6, 2012 By 8 Comments
Is it a way to include a great new person into the picture? Or is it a trap created out of insecurity?
“My girlfriend would grill me after going to the grocery story. How many affairs can I have in 10 minutes?”
Edgar Ramsey and Jimbo talk about past girlfriends, sexual compatibility and why jealousy is their top deal breaker in relationships. Have you experienced jealousy in your relationships? Is it at the top of your deal breaker list, or is something else?