How To Cultivate Your Darker Sexual Energy

Jordan Gray went on a journey to discover his fully expressed sexual self and became a better man in the process.

Male Abusers: Damned and Desired

Andrew Smiler is stunned by how quickly we can go from expressing concern about domestic violence at the Grammy’s to idealizing it in 50 Shades.

Despite What ’50 Shades’ Tells You, Kink is Not a License to Abuse

Harris O’Malley offers a guide on how embrace your fantasies while still practicing consent and mutual respect.

7 Things Men Can Learn From Fifty Shades Of Grey

Jordan Gray says that there are seven things that men can learn from Christian Grey.

What To Do With Your Nice Guy When She Begs For Your Bad Boy

How one nice guy responded to his partner’s request for dominating, rough, kinky sex?

Fifty Shades 2.0 – Time to Upgrade Your Kink Sexuality Knowledge Base

Fetish Sex Expert Galen Fous offers 4 critical guidelines to know before you explore erotic dominance and submission.

Beyond Friction Sex Part 2: How to Journey to the Deepest Realms of Eros

Sex expert Galen Fous lays out the the steps to mutual sexual ecstasy.

Beyond Friction Sex: 2 Key Pleasure Pathways to Off the Charts Ecstasy

Sex expert Galen Fous has advice for men and their partners about what lies beyond the seven minute mark of every day sex.

Do You Like Your Sex Holy or Nasty?

Galen Fous charts the range of sexual expression from carnal to divine. What’s your preference?

How to Welcome Your Male Sex Creature

Galen Fous reveals 5 keys to being a sexually authentic, conscious and empowered man.

Submissive Men Circa 1988: An Excerpt From the Memoirs of Janet Hardy

Kink pioneer Janet Hardy recalls some of the men she met when she first started exploring BDSM. The following is an excerpt from Janet Hardy’s upcoming memoir, currently titled “Impervious: Chronicles of a Retired Deviant”. In this excerpt, she recalls the early days of finding dates through coded personal ads. The personal ads suddenly became […]

21 Step Guide to the Art of Masculine Domination

Skillful dominance requires confidence and sensitivity. Are you bringing it, every step of the way?

Just Doing My Job

Justin Cascio’s life has been changed by the writers who reveal their own lives—and the taboos of our society.

Are You Dating a Serial Killer? Psychology Today Thinks You Might Be.

Charles Emrich is here to help you come to grips with the Bateman-esque monster Psychology Today thinks you’ve fallen for. Sometimes you have to expose yourself to awful things to remind yourself that they exist, that evil exists. Past the darkness at the end of the streetlights, you can hear it. It’s out there in […]

“My best casual sex was after flirtatious bar conversation and chat about sexual preferences, arm in arm, going to their place.”

These are comments by SecondBeach, John, and Mike on the post “On Women and Casual Sex – Part II: Flings, One Night Stands and Same Night Lays”.

On Publishing ‘Sex and Snuff: What Dying Twice Taught Me About Eroticized Death’

Senior Editor Joanna Schroeder explains why she believes the voices of those who star in porn are crucial to the conversation about what is and is not acceptable in pornography.