Losing My Libido: One Man’s Story

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Amit Wehle awakens to face the loss of his gradual diminishing sex drive.

How Much Sex is Too Much Sex?

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D.A. Wolf gets into the question everyone wonders about and nobody wants to be the first to ask.

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“The first rule about F*ck Club is: you don’t blog about F*ck Club.”

Six Creepy Assumptions In “Five Things Men Do To Ruin Their Own Sex Lives”

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Noah Brand responds, point by point, to a recent Cracked article that provides relationship advice for some kind of disturbing alternate world.

“My wife’s libido dropped while mine was strong, and we wanted to make it work so we communicated and brainstormed.”

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This is a comment by Arium on the post “On Withholding Sex”.

“The lower-libido person still has some responsibility. Being less interested doesn’t give you dictatorial power over the sex life.”

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These are comments by Ulysses and wellokaythen on the post “On Withholding Sex“.

Can Men Tell The Truth About Sex?

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Where are the male voices debating contemporary sexuality? No, really, where are they?

“The subtext: men are sex-crazed maniacs and women aren’t supposed to like sex.”

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This is a comment by Sarah on the post “The Truth about Porn and Relationships”.

Dear John: His Low Libido Is Bringing Her Down

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This week Dear John addresses a low libido, a son’s discovery of porn, and a self-conscious, protective partner.

Should I Leave My Sexless Marriage?

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Advice from YourTango about what to do when the love is still there but the sex has left the building.

Masculine Sexuality: What Gets Overlooked

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Dr. Ley argues that the oft-blamed trope of “sex addiction” isn’t real.

Learn to Love Your Libido

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 Ever feel ashamed of your sexual desires? Noah Brand talks about how to move past those feelings and trust your lust. Long ago, I heard a legend of a Sunday School teacher who taught the kids in her class about Matthew 21:18-22, in which Jesus gets pissed off at a fig tree for basically no [...]

Lust in Translation: Every Woman Is Horny in Her Own Way

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Brandon Ferdig responds to Noah Brand.

Can’t She See I Need It?

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Many men and women in long-term relationships are unhappy with the frequency they have sex. How can couples re-sync their desires?

How Porn Can Ruin Your Sex Life

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Always young. Always beautiful. Always new. Porn keeps dopamine surging in the brain. But at what point does chronic stimulation become chronic dissatisfaction?