On Nights Like These

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As much as Angel Garcia’s speaker insists “this is not about precision,” this poem is extremely precise–in its language, in its images, in its emotional resonance.

Facebook: The End of Loneliness?

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Why connecting on the social media site feels like a constant affirmation.

Preferring Electric Shock to the Shock of Being Alone

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Patricia O’Laughlin offers six things you can do to minimize the shock of your own feelings.

Learnings from an Emotional Abuser to the World

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Alejandro Flores was an insulting and emotionally abusive partner to the person he most loved. He reflects back on the darkness of those times, and on the light ahead.

“Don’t let extraverts dictate normality. Alone does not need fixing”

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Leave Me Alone, I’m Not Lonely

Leave Me Alone, I’m Not Lonely

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People seem to automatically assume that being alone is the same thing as being lonely. For Allan Mott, this simply isn’t true.

Here’s What I’m Afraid of…and Maybe You Are, Too

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Do we run away from what scares us, or run away from running away?

When Leaving Seems Impossible …

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For partners stuck in dysfunctional relationships, Thomas Fiffer offers a roadmap for getting out.

Guys, Change Your Scenery

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The only way to beat the taxing grind is to get out of it, at least for a while.

How To Teach a Man or a Boy

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Among the most harmful things we do to men and boys is leave them to their own devices.

Big Guy

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Pepper Trail steps inside the mind of a man made lonely by appetite.

You Don’t Need to Feel Ashamed

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Survivors of sexual abuse can’t simply flip the shame button to the off position. If only it were that easy…

How My 91 Year Old Relative Showed Me The Secret To A Powerful Relationship

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Graham Phoenix explores the difference between loneliness and aloneness, and discovers how dependency can destroy a relationship.

Dear Artists: We Need You Now More Than Ever

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The world is getting more confusing. Eric Shapiro reminds us why we need you.

Learning to Foxtrot

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In this touching, relatable poem, Jessica Server offers some sympathy to those boys whose “deep phobia of dancing” keeps them from getting close to the women they pine after.

100 Words on Love: Late Night Conversation

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“I’m happy. I love myself. Life is good.”