Looking For The Perfect Woman? Or Man? Well, Just Stop It.


There are people out there who will just get you and just accept you, just the way that you are. Sometimes you don’t need fixing, you need accepting.

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Tina Cane’s poem considers a male construction of femininity.

Gay Men Are Losing Our Pizazz, and It’s a Problem… or Something?

San Francisco, setting of the HBO show "Looking".

Adam Hunt responds to an Esquire article complaining that the gays on a new HBO show are not “fun” enough. In other words, good-bye stereotypes.

A Simple Guide for Looking at Women on the Street: Glancing Vs. Staring

woman walking

I don’t hold eye contact, I don’t look for more than a second and I don’t let my gaze linger. I do all these things out of respect for one simple fact.

So, I Looked at Her


If you admit to staring at a beautiful woman…

Dear John: My Neighbor Is A Pervert


Dear John addresses a guy next door watching porn, a girlfriend posing nude for art school, and a passive-aggressive neighbor.