My Son Is A Loser (And So Am I)


Douglas Gertner’s son tends to misplace quite a few things, but…sometimes, so does he.

Why Forgiveness is the Answer to Finally Moving On


Kaya Adler had to forgive her cheating ex before she could be happy.

What’s Wrong with Winning?


JD Roberto questions the accepted wisdom of our youth sports world, in which we are told to tell our children that it’s not whether you win or lose, but how you play the game.

Why Many High Achievers Feel Unfulfilled


Are most high acheivers unhappy and closed off emotionally? Mark Goulston answers.

On Greatness: Ernie Banks


The Good Men Project’s On Greatness brings you the most inspiring quotes and related imagery from the world of sports.

What I learned Losing $7,211 Creating iPhone Apps


Karol Gajda urges you to learn from his mistakes.

Can’t Win But For Losing: Playing Board Games with My Sons

Can’t Win But For Losing: Playing Board Games with My Sons

Ben Railton makes the case for why occasionally letting his sons win at board games can actually be more empathetic and educational than leaving the outcomes up to chance.

2 Ways to Maintain Your Sanity, Even if You’ve Lost Everything Else in Life


When everything else seems like a lost cause, remember these two things.

My Child Is Not Extraordinary, and That’s Ok

“Generation Me feel more entitled and have much higher self esteem than the generations before them, it is not making them happier.”

We’re not all winners: Kathy Wilson shares tips on how to prepare a child’s self-esteem for adult life.

A Letter to Myself: Turning 25 and Perfecting the Pursuit


Adam Ornelas takes stock of his first quarter century. Despite setbacks in love and work, what he finds is inspiration to be the best man he can be.

What Losing Taught Me About Winning


A high school basketball coach talks about the sophomore slump that saved his family.

The Competitive Edge: Why It’s Imperative We Teach Our Sons and Daughters To Compete

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Alan Bishop worries we talk too much about the negative aspects of competition instead of focusing on all the positives.

Love and Losing: A Bonding Story

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What is more important when picking a favorite sports team: tradition or location? Larry Bernstein shares losing, love, and baseball with his 9-year-old son.

Striving To Be The Best… And Failing


Why you need to let go of your need to always win.

Be Nice, You Rancid Little Punk!

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The impatient father of a young perfectionist finds “Do as I say, not as I do,” is easier said than done.

3 Things We Can Learn From U7 Basketball

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Parents and coaches have invaluable opportunities to teach and apply real-life lessons within the fun of organized sports. Unfortunately, many of us miss out on the opportunity.