Why Some Happily Married People Cheat

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“Routine and predictability, the two pillars of stability, tend to stifle erotic spontaneity and creativity.”

Why Don’t We Trust The Ones We Love?

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Our loved ones’ opinions should matter the most to us. So why don’t we trust them? Doug Zeigler takes a deeper look.

I’m Tired Of Having To Fix, Learn, And Improve All The F**king Time. When Does It Stop?

Give me a break.

Steven Lake is at the end of his rope. Or is it the beginning of a new way of being?

Sudden Downpour

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Angel Garcia’s speaker is “trying to be a good man” even as he finds himself faced with the oldest of temptations.

Why I’ve Been Shocked By The Women I’ve Slept With

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A male writer remembers the women he’s met that pleasantly surprised him intimately, and how they smashed his preconceptions about who should be good at…you know.

Ladies. Why Every Man Wants To Sleep With You.

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The author explains to women why men constantly check them out. And why it’s OK.

“Just wanting lots of sex with multiple partners does not make you shallow or immature.”

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This comment by Steve on the post “Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

When Your Mojo’s Gone

The author. When he had his Mojo.

Simms Jr. had sex appeal. He thought. But it hasn’t seemed that way, recently. Here, he examines the disappearance of his mojo.

“Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

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A 40 year old “Fat” woman wrote an article about her sex life. And Greg Simms Jr. thinks it’s the most rock ‘n roll, seismic declaration of 2014. Here’s his take on this electric piece.

In the Magazine Corner

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Male lust and male shame often go hand-in-hand. Here they are together, in Bill Moser’s concrete little piece about “that guy” we’ve all seen or at least heard about.

Life Among Men

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A sometimes lush, sometimes gruff poem, William Reichard’s “Life Among Men” engages male lust head-on.

Lust for Professionals

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Lady Chatterley deconstructs the myth of the sex-starved male by showing the female side of desire

Why Men Are So Obsessed With Sex

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Steve Bearman looks at some of the influences in men’s lives that can lead to an obsession with sex…and how that can be overcome.

Seeing a Woman: A Conversation Between a Father and a Son

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It is a woman’s responsibility to dress herself in the morning. It is your responsibility to look at her like a human being regardless of what she is wearing.

How Social Messages Can Make a Man a Bad Lover

Pablo Neruda, love poetry, relationships, men's desire, men's sexuality, how to attract women, how to make love

What you believe may keep you from greater intimacy and satisfaction.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence [Video]

Esther Perel TED talk

Book author and TED Talk speaker Esther Perel shares the secret to desire in a long-term relationship.