The Real Reason Men Are Lonely in Lust

When men lust after women, it doesn’t just creep them out. Objectification hurts men, too.

The Doorway to Love Is a Broken Heart

I dare you to let the hammer of love smash open your heart.

Where Men Actually Fail to Commit: the Urgent Need for Self-Care

Jordan Kozey urges men past their demons into the most healthy practice of all: self-care.

Flirting When Married – Good Or Bad For The Relationship?

Flirting while married? Playing with fire, or keeping the embers glowing?

Moving From the Honeymoon Stage to Mature Love

Couples therapist Quentin Hafner knows how to transform the passionate flame of those early days into the warming fire of mature love. Here’s how it’s done.

Nowhere to Go

Allen Fraser Clark captures the frustration and desire of young men, eager for sexual expression and frightened by it.

8 Little Known Mistakes that Can Wreck Your Relationship

David Gould looks beyond love and lust to what makes a romantic relationship a lasting one.

100 Words on Love: For Me?

Your body launched me back in time, to that first moment when you showed me my own eternity.

This is Your Brain on Love and This is Your Brain on Lust

Lust is primal; love is romantic. People who have been both in love and lust can often distinguish between the two more clearly than those who haven’t.

When You Feel Attraction But Don’t Want Action

Trish Everett offers an innovative way to deal with desire we don’t want to act on: the attraction contract.

Lust is NOT Love: 3 Key Differences That are Often Confused

Brandon Davis on where people go wrong in mixing love and lust.

Why Some Happily Married People Cheat

“Routine and predictability, the two pillars of stability, tend to stifle erotic spontaneity and creativity.”

Why Don’t We Trust The Ones We Love?

Our loved ones’ opinions should matter the most to us. So why don’t we trust them? Doug Zeigler takes a deeper look.

I’m Tired Of Having To Fix, Learn, And Improve All The F**king Time. When Does It Stop?

Steven Lake is at the end of his rope. Or is it the beginning of a new way of being?

Sudden Downpour

Angel Garcia’s speaker is “trying to be a good man” even as he finds himself faced with the oldest of temptations.

Why I’ve Been Shocked By The Women I’ve Slept With

A male writer remembers the women he’s met that pleasantly surprised him intimately, and how they smashed his preconceptions about who should be good at…you know.