How Social Messages Can Make a Man a Bad Lover

Pablo Neruda, love poetry, relationships, men's desire, men's sexuality, how to attract women, how to make love

What you believe may keep you from greater intimacy and satisfaction.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence [Video]

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Book author and TED Talk speaker Esther Perel shares the secret to desire in a long-term relationship.

10 Things I Find Sexy in a Woman (That Have Nothing to Do With Looks)

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What makes a woman attractive to Damien Bohler is about a lot more than beauty.

Woman Divorces Husband for Withholding Sex

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Woman ends her marriage of seventeen years when she finds it lacks passion.

“A kind of rape society doesn’t talk about is the type where ‘consent’ is given through coercion or wearing-down.”

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This is a comment by Davey on the post “Nice Guys Commit Rape Too”.

Is BDSM Just a Phase?

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A dominant man’s sexuality matures and evolves with experience.

Your Wedding, Your Life

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The greatest threat to marital peace is a set of unrealistic expectations, demands which may reach an early climax in the wedding ceremony.

Can We Be More Than Just Friends with Benefits?

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Could we make a serious relationship work after all this time?

Confessions of a Recovered Porn Addict

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To prepare myself for writing today I watched some Internet porn.

“The more I watch porn, the more I crave sex with real women.”

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These are comments by John, Hank Vandenburgh, and Garrett A. Brown on the post “Men and Pornography: 10/20″.

“Don’t worry: women will be attracted to your manliness if you exert the right attitude.”

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This is a comment by Matt on the post “The Male Body: Repulsive or Beautiful?”

“Too many people simplify blowjobs into a sex act and don’t experience the mutual passion and lust.”

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This is a comment by Gordon on the post “How to Receive a Blowjob Respectfully”.

Emotional Intelligence: 9/22

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What should we be teaching boys and men about their emotions?

“Here’s a suggestion: if you don’t know the woman, shut the f*ck up. Tell your mother she has a nice ass.”

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This is a comment by Mike on the post “Why Are Guys So Obsessed With My Butt?”

Why Men Objectify Women

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“When I check out women, what is really going on with me? Is it just normal because I’m a heterosexual guy that likes women?” Jayson Gaddis explores objectification.

“The anti-porn tone here is extremely discomforting. Porn is not equivalent to addictive substances, nor is it inherently bad.”

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These are comments by Archy and Zek J. Evets on the post “Are Porn and Video Games Hurting Young Men?”.