8 Little Known Mistakes that Can Wreck Your Relationship

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David Gould looks beyond love and lust to what makes a romantic relationship a lasting one.

100 Words on Love: For Me?

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Your body launched me back in time, to that first moment when you showed me my own eternity.

This is Your Brain on Love and This is Your Brain on Lust

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Lust is primal; love is romantic. People who have been both in love and lust can often distinguish between the two more clearly than those who haven’t.

When You Feel Attraction But Don’t Want Action

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Trish Everett offers an innovative way to deal with desire we don’t want to act on: the attraction contract.

Lust is NOT Love: 3 Key Differences That are Often Confused

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Brandon Davis on where people go wrong in mixing love and lust.

Why Some Happily Married People Cheat

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“Routine and predictability, the two pillars of stability, tend to stifle erotic spontaneity and creativity.”

Why Don’t We Trust The Ones We Love?

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Our loved ones’ opinions should matter the most to us. So why don’t we trust them? Doug Zeigler takes a deeper look.

I’m Tired Of Having To Fix, Learn, And Improve All The F**king Time. When Does It Stop?

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Steven Lake is at the end of his rope. Or is it the beginning of a new way of being?

Sudden Downpour

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Angel Garcia’s speaker is “trying to be a good man” even as he finds himself faced with the oldest of temptations.

Why I’ve Been Shocked By The Women I’ve Slept With

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A male writer remembers the women he’s met that pleasantly surprised him intimately, and how they smashed his preconceptions about who should be good at…you know.

Ladies. Why Every Man Wants To Sleep With You.

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The author explains to women why men constantly check them out. And why it’s OK.

“Just wanting lots of sex with multiple partners does not make you shallow or immature.”

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This comment by Steve on the post “Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

When Your Mojo’s Gone

The author. When he had his Mojo.

Simms Jr. had sex appeal. He thought. But it hasn’t seemed that way, recently. Here, he examines the disappearance of his mojo.

“Confidence Is Sexy.” This is the Kind of Woman that Real Men Love. A Confident One.

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A 40 year old “Fat” woman wrote an article about her sex life. And Greg Simms Jr. thinks it’s the most rock ‘n roll, seismic declaration of 2014. Here’s his take on this electric piece.

In the Magazine Corner

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Male lust and male shame often go hand-in-hand. Here they are together, in Bill Moser’s concrete little piece about “that guy” we’ve all seen or at least heard about.

Life Among Men

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A sometimes lush, sometimes gruff poem, William Reichard’s “Life Among Men” engages male lust head-on.