Angel Vasquez Might Kill Somebody, Someday

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As Dennis Danziger watches his students graduate, he wonders what will happen next.

A Letter to Masculinity

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“Dear Masculinity, Who are you? Because no one seems to know for sure.” Dr. Kelly Flanagan’s letter to a man who’s impossible to know.

What Real Men Talk About

T Cooper interview, T Cooper writer, transgender men, FTM, transmen, Real Man Adventures, gender transition

Justin Cascio talks to T Cooper, author of Real Man Adventures, about writing, crying, and being a real man.

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What Is a “Macho” Man?

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The word “macho” stirs up all kinds of emotions, but what does it truly mean?

“I attended a homophobic, hyper-masculine all-male high school, and I listened to a lot of punk and hardcore as an outlet for my feelings there.”

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This is a comment by Evin Carty on the post “Is Music the Last Sanctioned Outlet for Men to Express Their Emotions?”

Coup d’État

Dominican Republic, puberty, rites of passage, missionaries, youth mission

A missionary growing his first chin hairs comes face to face with revolutionary soldiers in the Dominican Republic.

When a Man’s Responsibility Has Gone, What Is There Left for Him?

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Men keep going out of a sense of duty. What happens when that’s no longer enough?

Rap Music as a Safe Space for Hetero-Masculine Love

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That most masculine of subcultures, the world of hip hop, ironically provides an acceptable outlet for men to express platonic affection for one another: through rap lyrics.

The Hazards of Manhood

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Am I man enough? Am I powerful enough? Men put their bodies at risk to cover up pain, fear, and vulnerability.

Measuring My Manhood: Faith and Machismo

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The Registered Runaway compares himself to the “macho Christian” image some pastors espouse, and finds neither he nor Jesus Christ measure up.

Why “What Do You Do?” is an Attack on Manhood

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Tom Matlack wonders why men are always defined by what they do, instead of who they are, or better yet, what they love.

Man Up? Never

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Despite popular belief, “manning up” will not change your manliness.

Private—Men Only

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Dan Griffin thinks there’s a place for single-gender spaces, so long as the people involved are genuinely of good will.

“Accuse someone of being a ‘racist’ on the internet, the accused has been effectively silenced.”

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This is a comment by AnonymousDog on the post “TakiMag: Twelve-Step Plan for American Machismo”.

Man Made: Surviving Outdoors

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Joel Stein attempts to become a Boy Scout as an adult, in an excerpt from his hilarious new book.

Machismo Harms Relationships

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Shawn Maxam discusses how old-school ideas of masculinity inhibit true intimacy.