Dear Young Men: I Wish Someone Had Told Me These Things

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David Cain eventually learned that being a man isn’t what he was taught. Now he wants to spare young men the suffering he endured and forge a new concept of manhood.

Male Sexuality And How Shame Hurts Everyone

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Arden Leigh thinks we all need to release some of the shame we put on ourselves and on others.

Masculinity Is Like My Second Skin. But What Is It Really?

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Through the body we experience the social world, writes James W. Messerschmidt. Raoul Wieland asks what good an extreme self-awareness does for the male identity.

What The World Would Be Like If It Were Men Who Got Their Periods

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The question was kind of funny. The answers were eyebrow raising.

The Only March Madness Should’ve Been Relentless Protesting

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Give college athletes, those whose backs March Madness are built on for example, their 40 acres and a mule.

Undertaker’s Streak is Over and so is My Childhood

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Today I hang up my childhood like The Undertaker did his boots and relish in the good ol’ days.

Challenging Casanova: Beyond the Stereotype of the Promiscuous Young Male [Excerpt]

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Andrew Smiler, with some very unconventional wisdom about young men and sexuality.

Reinvent and Relearn: A Response to NY Times Op-Ed Columnist Thomas Friedman

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Learning to reinvent and relearn is often scary. But doing it together — as men and as humans — might be the only thing we can do.

Why Do We Still Circumcise Boys?

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Whether childhood circumcision is acceptable or not is an ethical question, not a medical one. Chuck Ross asks, why did we ever circumcise boys?

“When I see male Olympians, I see that hard work does pay off. It’s refreshing and triumphant.”

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These are comments by A. Buchert and Mike L on the post “Open Thread: Does Watching the Olympics Make You Feel Bad About Your Body?”

“I’d say find a place where your son can wear a dress and let him wear one.”

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This is a comment by Collin on the post “My Son Wants to Wear a Dress”.

“Every man can recall a moment of shame and self-loathing when he lowered himself to sake his lust.”

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This is a comment by Random_Stranger on the post “Cracked.com on Misogyny”.