Be a Man. (Even if it Kills You.)

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Mitchell Fink tried to do all the things he thought he was supposed to do as a man. Until he found himself depressed, alone, unable to ask for help — and suicidal.

What Does It Mean to Be a Man? U of Calgary Students Respond

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How do students feel about manhood and masculinity today?

Mental Toughness Has Nothing to Do with Being a Hardass

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Learn the difference between mastery and suppression of your feelings.

These Simple Phrases Are Harming All of Us and Here’s How We Can Stop It (Video)

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Why “man up” and “you play like a girl” are devastating to everyone.

6 Ways to talk to Your Son About Male Violence and Healthy Masculinity

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Our boys are being bombarded with messages on how to be “manly”—not all of them healthy. Men Can Stop Rape pairs with Sandra Kim to help parents support their sons’ healthy development.

I Don’t Want To Be Seen As Weak

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Manning-up is not just for men any more.

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“We can’t support boys and men who are struggling when we believe that their struggles make them weak.”

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These are comments by JJ and Joanna Schroeder on the post “Lead a Good Life, Everyone: Trey Malone’s Suicide Note”.

Man Up / Man Down

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Hipster Sexism doesn’t serve humanity any better than the Classic variety.

Romney Advisor: Obama Should “Man Up”

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So, anyone catch the American presidential debate last night? I did, as you would know if you followed me on Twitter like sensible people. Obama is a feminist! Romney thinks single moms cause gun violence! Romney has binders full of women! Sorry, Romney, but all the women really want to get into my binder. In the [...]

‘Man Up’ – An Excerpt from Carlos Andrés Gómez’s New Book

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“I am tired of men dying because they feel alone, feeling like they are destined for prison or monotony or gender role-playing or anything less than their most divine of dreams… I know that I am not alone in this.”

25 Ways to Redefine the Phrase ‘Man Up’

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Carlos Andrés Gómez is on a mission to reclaim the phrase “man up” to reflect all the best things about masculinity today.

What Sex Education Could Be Like

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Does sex ed include information on human interactions beyond ‘here’s where the parts go’?

Fears for Tears: Men and Vulnerability

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Jeff Perera has a story that will make you weep.

Straight Guy in Bed With Another Man

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In this installment of his “Man Up Mondays” series, Carlos Andrés Gómez confronts the notion that even the most evolved and progressive guys freak out at the idea of sharing a bed with a male friend.

Man Up! Lessons on Manhood from Bob Marley’s Music

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Bob Marley’s lessons for men on freedom, responsibility, and living are greater and more profound than simply telling our boys to ‘man up,’ says Geoffrey Philp.

Video: What’s Your “Man Up” Moment?

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Carlos Andrés Gómez has created an awesome, diverse, and inspiring collection of videos of men sharing their Man Up moments.