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Why We Need More by Atos

Jed Diamond can’t think of anything more important for the peace and well-being of the world than deepening the dialogue of what it means to be a good man.

The Lie Men Need to Stop Telling and Believing

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There’s a lie men tell themselves, and each other, and it’s destroying their ability to survive in this world.

What Being Mistaken for a Girl Taught Me About Being a Man

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Jeff Goins shares a searing tale of adolescent angst and identity.

The Patterns In Mass Shootings and a Conversation About Men

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A look at the patterns in the 71 mass shootings over the last 32 years and how they intersect with the social pressures of masculinity.

Putting Your Past in Perspective

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Our pasts can either empower us, or immobilize us. The choice is yours.

5 New Rules for Manhood: The Need for a Mansformation

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I’m tired of being tired. Being a man today is exhausting, and it’s time to fight back. It’s time to redefine what a man is, what a man does, and who a man should be.

The Legacy of a Good Man

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Abel Perez Sr. was a ‘nobody’ by the world’s standard, but his legacy tells a different story.

How to Feel Like a Man

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Some boys grow up and never quite feel like men. The Art of Manliness says you feel like a man when you start acting like one and offers some manly advice on how to begin.

What’s Needed To Raise Boys Into Balanced Men

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Jose Aviles on what boys need and the dangers ahead if we fail them.

Moving Up the Generational Ladder: How My Grandfather’s Death Saved My Family

Moving Up the Generational Ladder: How My Grandfather’s Death Saved My Family

Kevin Sterling reflects on the profound personal lessons and inspirations he was able to glean from his grandfather’s long and storied life.

The 1 Thing Every Man Wants in a Relationship—but Doesn’t Realize

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Tor Constantino shares the rarely spoken need in every man’s heart.

Mascupathy: Giving a New Name to an Old Problem

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“Mascupathy is a mental health disorder, a pathology of masculinity, stemming from a socialized exaggeration of genetic masculine traits — aggression and invulnerability — and a reduction of inherent feminine characteristics — openness and sensitivity.”

Closing Down the School of Hard Knocks

Closing Down School of Hard Knocks

If we can’t envision males who are empathic and masculine or strong, then how the heck are we ever going to raise them?

The Best Piece of Man-to-Man Advice I Ever Got

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Tor Constantino believes some of life’s greatest lessons for manhood come from seemingly insignificant, man-to-man moments.

Manhood: The Burden of Proof

Manhood Burden of Proof

How does a boy know he has become a man in a society where being a man means different things to different people?

5 Reasons Getting Sex Is Overrated

5 Reasons Getting Sex by Tina Franklin

Understanding the difference between getting sex and experiencing sex promotes consent—and makes all the difference in getting one’s needs met.