My Queer Life: On Being Transgender and Married. Twice.

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Alex Myers married his wife twice. Once as part of a same-sex couple and again as an opposite-sex couple. Here’s what this taught him about marriage.

Changing Your Perception About Child Support

Changing Your Perception About Child Support

Dr. David Lee Asbery discusses how his views about child support changed after his own divorce and suggests ways that men can start viewing similar situations in a new light.

7 Lessons I Learned The Hard Way That Saved My Marriage

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Over 180,000 in debt to the IRS, and separated from his wife, this man had lost all hope. After a good cry he determined to turn his business, and marriage around.

Portrait of Jealousy: A Man Accused

Portrait of Jealousy by Terry Moore

Did this man’s roving eyes really ruin the picnic outing, or was it his wife’s jealous nature?

3 Reasons It Is So Damn Hard to Get a Divorce

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The answer boils down to pretty much one of three things: you’re difficult, your spouse is difficult or the lawyers are difficult.

Relationship Help That Could Save Your Marriage

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If you’re tired of hearing “You’re not listening to me” or “Stop trying to fix all my problems”, this video is for you.

The Fading Passion of Monogamy

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For many married couples, love—or at least its intensity—tends to fade with time. How then, does monogamy endure?

Would a Penniless Mr. Darcy still be Mr. Darcy?

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Are we more than the sum of our parts and should arbitrary circumstances of birth determine our chance for happiness

Divorce: The 7-Letter Word My Kids and I Never Want to Hear Again

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Twice is nice, but not when it comes to divorce. Dawn Elyse Warden shares the heartbreak of second separation.

Two Things No Newlywed Wants to Hear

Two Things No Newlywed by Ruth Hartnup

Sarafina Bianco believes there are a couple of things you shouldn’t say to newlyweds.

I Moved In With My In-Laws, And Here’s How It Worked.

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Yes, you read that right. Joe Deprospero purposely moved in with his parents-in-law. And it wasn’t a total nightmare. In fact, it worked.

An Old Man in a Blouse, At Market

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In this convention-defying poem, Stephen Scott Whitaker reminds us that gender identity, sexual orientation, and clothing choice are not necessarily related.

The Greatest Gift She Ever Gave Me

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Paul Cooper’s wife gave him the ability to trust women again. Here’s how.

14 Marital Tips on Our 14th Anniversary

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If you are lucky (and you work your ass off) your marriage could last for a very long time. With that thought looming over your head, it’s good to have some guidelines as you attempt to live with the same person for years on end.

Coming Out Married

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When you’re gay and get married, sometimes it feels like coming out all over again.

Three Things to Know Before Getting Married (#3 Could Save a Lot of Heartache…)

Three Things to Know Before Getting Married (#3 Could Save a Lot of Heartache…)

Nick Pavlidis reflects on his marriage and calls out three crucial truths about being married that any newlywed should realize sooner than later.