Before the Mask Goes On: My Take on Our Boys’ Masculinity


Dr. Philip B Dembo asks what critical conversations we need to be having about modern masculinity.

The Fear Mongers


Dwight Gray brings home the ISIS beheading of journalist James Foley, and does so in a way that challenges cliche and oversimplification.

Halloween Is for White People

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In this installment of “Love, Recorded,” Matt takes his daughter to a Halloween party and wonders: Is Halloween a White People Holiday?

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Mastered in childhood and carried into adulthood, the dumb boy face is a pernicious mask handy for avoiding accountability, writes Craig Bloomstrand.

The Ballad of Betty and Veronica, Part II: Life With a Stripper


This woman was NOT just some stripper…

The Man Behind the Mask


What keeps men from sharing their feelings—until it’s too late? Psychotherapist Stephanie Morgan explores the Boy Code through Rick Belden’s poetry.

The Masks We Wear


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Wrestling: Welcome to “Name that…” Wait…Let’s Try, Who Am I? [@WrestlingThump, @ChemicalJulian]

Can you name the legendary Black wrestler here? Read the clues and find out!

Suck It, Simon! Overweight Teen Dazzles on “Britain’s Got Talent”

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Jamie Reidy comments on another stunning vocal performance that shatters superficial judgments.