Anticipation of the Knife


Masculinity is often tied to pain management. Here, Michael Walsh ponders whether one kind of pain can be used to manage another.

Missing the Days Before You Were Married


The glass of retrospect distorts, for a moment, a married man’s memories of his globetrotting single days .

How BDSM Helped a Rape Survivor Recover


Author Jane Devin overcame fear to embrace an unlikely ally

Is BDSM Just a Phase?


A dominant man’s sexuality matures and evolves with experience.

Some Thoughts and Questions About BDSM PR

In December while visiting his family for the holidays, Charles and I stopped by the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago. The LA&M is a small, but scrupulously kept museum nestled in with a bunch of apartment complexes. The museum is identifiable by its sign bearing a gigantic boot, as well the resemblance of the […]