“My wife’s libido dropped while mine was strong, and we wanted to make it work so we communicated and brainstormed.”

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This is a comment by Arium on the post “On Withholding Sex”.

“What I told my sons was their penis was just that—THEIRS and theirs alone.”

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These are comments by Dan and Makena on the post “A Boy and His Penis”.

How Can You Be Spiritual and Sexual?

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Even spiritual people receive mixed messages that complicate becoming sexually mindful.

A Boy and His Penis

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JD Roberto wishes he could avoid sending his five-year-old son mixed messages about his sexuality.

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

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Why can’t we love one another like we used to?

Dear John: Where Does Generosity End And Mooching Begin?

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This week Dear John address a moocher, a nude portrait of a wife, and sperm donation.

Why Do We Still Circumcise Boys?

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Whether childhood circumcision is acceptable or not is an ethical question, not a medical one. Chuck Ross asks, why did we ever circumcise boys?

“In society, a woman’s masturbation is a sign of success, but a man’s is a sign of failure.”

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This is a comment by wellokaythen on the post “Humping the Uncanny Valley: The Sexiness Gap in Men’s Sex Toys”.

Humping the Uncanny Valley: The Sexiness Gap in Men’s Sex Toys

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Charles Emrich looks at the state of sex toys for men and plumbs some pretty distressing depths.

“Love does not mean: ‘Your partner magically knows how to please you.’”

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This is a comment by Æther on the post “What Women Don’t Tell You”.

“Guilt and shame are seriously like bad cologne or a fart in an elevator.”

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This is a comment by Hot-tall-intelligent-mature-HWP-blonde-blue-eyed-woman on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.

My Sexorcism

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The Sexless Father writes about reinvigorating his sex life from the inside out. If you free your mind, will your ass really follow?

“No one is teaching young people how to talk to each other about sex.”

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This is a comment by Lara Sobel on the post “Is Holding Hands a Gateway Sexual Activity?”

A Gay Cowboy’s First Castro Pride

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One gay cowboy’s mind is opened by the diversity of celebrants at the 1987 San Francisco Gay Pride parade.

“If a man chooses to engage in porn over a relationship, why is that a problem? Porn use has broken relationships, but no one is owed a relationship.”

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This is a comment by John Anderson on the post “The Single Biggest Obstacle Facing Boys and Men Today”.

“If someone is using porn, erotica, or romance novels to hide from others and avoid connecting, that can be a problem.”

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This is a comment by Sarah on the post “The Single Biggest Obstacle Facing Boys and Men Today”.