5 Surprising Behaviors That Ruin Relationships

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Doctor NerdLove explains how even when we think we’re doing everything right, bad habits can sneak in and ruin a perfectly good romance.

Dating is Making Me a Better Man… I Hope

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Omar Shaukat admits that despite being a stand-up comic, girls don’t find him funny on dates.

Dating the Single Co-Parenting Dad: On the Outside Looking In

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Single dads are fiercely committed to their little ones saying, by action and by word, “you are loved.”

Better Dating Through Mind Control

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Doctor NerdLove looks back at his worst years—plagued with anxiety and loneliness—and shares the tools that helped him succeed in dating.

I’m in Love With a Married Redneck

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help in keeping the attention of his married girlfriend.

I’m Not Worthy of Her

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A man with low self-esteem asks Eli and Josie for help in believing his girlfriend when she says she loves him.

When Chauvinism Ruled My Life

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Olivia Davis discusses her year long brush with modern chauvinism in the form of a boy she liked.

Poll: Would You Date Yourself?

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Would you date YOU?

Is it Okay to Ask Out My Coworker?

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help with his feelings toward a coworker… who is also a friend… and a friend of his ex. Oh my.

L’Homme Fatal, or ‘Just Not That Into You’?

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Kaleb Blake reacts to an article that paints men as devious lotharios, and wonders if blaming men is a way to shrug responsibility for one’s own dating behavior.

The Ups and Downs of ‘The Friend Zone’

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Showtime thinks men need to stop lamenting, and start embracing The Friend Zone.

Can a ‘Nice Guy’ Ever Beat the ‘Bad Boy’?

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A man asks Eli and Josie how to win the attentions of a woman whose other crush is a “bad boy”.

‘Cool’ is More Important Than ‘Swag’

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Damon Young explains that when it comes to meeting women, coolness is more important than swagger, and actor Idris Elba is the perfect embodiment of how to make that work for you.

Is Sex All You Have to Offer?

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Katarina Ilic goes on a short rant about how soon is too soon when first dating.

Be The Man

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Jamie Reidy has just three words for you to remember on a first date: Be. The. Man.

Why Men Deserve a Break in the Dating Marketplace

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Nicole Johnson explains that while women are gaining equality in the 21st century, the dating marketplace still places an unfair burden upon men.