Looking for my First Second Date as a Person with a Disability


Andrew Morrison-Gurza is past never been kissed…he’s worried about “never been missed”.

When Men Check Out of Love (But Their Bodies Stay)

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What happens when men stop showing up in a relationship, even when they’re still physically present?

Why We Should Stop Saying “Friend Zone”

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Matthew Rozsa discusses the term “friend zone” – and why we should get rid of it.

Three Myths That Keep Us From Finding Love


How many of these have you heard before? Ken Page has antidotes for these toxic half-truths.

Romance Isn’t Dead, It’s Just Lost (Or, How to Be a Man With a Capital M)

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Being romantic, writes Eddy Baller, is being attentive, considerate and passionate. None of which makes you less of a man.

The 7 Qualities You Want in a Girlfriend

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The inside scoop on how to find a girlfriend for a meaningful relationship

Lies to Let Them Down Easy or Courteous Truth?

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A long let down to the truth isn’t going down easy. Instead, fly straight and true.

Big 5 Relationship Questions to Answer Before You Start Dating Again


The Off Parent explains why he won’t settle for anything less than YES.

Why I’m Not Ready to Date (Video)


Young boy tells people “get yourself together” BEFORE you try to date someone else

5 Online Dating Profile Mistakes Men Make and How to Fix Them


Online dating is competitive. Kate Houston is a professional online dating profile writer with some tips to help men succeed.

The Trouble With Online Dating

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Online dating is a great way to meet new people, but Dr. NerdLove sees a few problems with finding real love this way.

It’s Not You It’s Me

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Jon Vaughn liked the kissing part of kissing a lot of frogs. But eventually, he just had to break up with online dating.

I Want to Start Dating, But I Don’t Know How

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A guy who’s never been been kissed asks Eli and Josie how to start asking women out on dates.

Learn From This: Forgetting Sarah Marshall

It’s also, critically, the point where he starts dressing like an adult again.

Doctor NerdLove believes there’s a lot we can learn about moving on and getting ready for a better relationship from the movie Forgetting Sarah Marshall.

Giving Up Control in Dating

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Dr. NerdLove insists that no matter how fantastic you may be, there will inevitably be people who just aren’t into you and never will be, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Confidence: Fake It ‘Til You Make It

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Doctor NerdLove insists that It’s not about swagger, attitude or making noise about how big and badass you are.