men’s sexuality — The Good Men Project

A Person Is Not a Closet

May 5, 2013 By Chuck Ross 114 Comments

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Did Jason Collins use his former fiancee, Carolyn Moos?

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The Strength of Submission

April 21, 2013 By John Edale 2 Comments

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At first, John Edale worried about sharing this private aspect of his life in a blog, but has found that coming out as submissive has unexpected benefits.

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5 Guys Talking: The Second Half of Manhood

April 12, 2013 By the Editors 9 Comments

What happens when you get five guys talking about ‘the perfect relationship’?

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A Gentlemen’s Theory: Keep Your Favorite Pornstars a Secret

April 9, 2013 By Caleb Bacon 23 Comments

What men talk about when we talk about porn.

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How Social Messages Can Make a Man a Bad Lover

April 6, 2013 By Brandy Engler 15 Comments

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What you believe may keep you from greater intimacy and satisfaction.

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What Men Really Want

March 24, 2013 By Brandy Engler 33 Comments

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Men may think what they want is shockingly antisocial, but digging deeper reveals that what men truly want is actually quite ordinary and healthy.

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Five Terrors of Being a Man

February 24, 2013 By Mark Greene 31 Comments

Men’s wide ranging fears remain hidden behind a facade of false confidence.

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safe sexx confession

September 8, 2012 By Rick Belden 4 Comments

Rick Belden confesses everything she makes him feel.

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David R. Dow: Lessons From Death Row Inmates (TEDTalk VIDEO)

David R. Dow is an attorney in Texas who has defended over 100 death row inmates over the last 20 years.

HuffPost Live: Decapitating Extremism (VIDEO)

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Our Mission: The Vasectomy Files 8

The Vasectomy Project is encouraging men to join forces and take responsibly for family planning. This is an opportunity to bring people together to talk about our collective responsibility while offering men a concrete way to contribute towards a solution by having a vasectomy.