Having Tea With The Things That Scare Me Most


When Billy Flood was a little boy, the video for “Thriller” scared him to the core. Today he’s facing fears that are bigger and much more vast.

Finding the Truly Heroic Among Us Mere Mortals

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“The men whom I have met during the Project have each inspired me to grow in a different way. They are my heroes. What we need as men isn’t more silent suffering; it’s the willingness to tell and listen to the truth of our lives.” ~ Tom Matlack

Story Takes Courage – Especially When the Story is Your Life


To truly write with conviction, you need to tell the story from your heart. How many of us could do that with our entire lives?

The Good Men Project Anthology is Free With Membership. Here Are 7 Reasons to Try It.


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Ft. Monroe Officer’s Club


John Tinseth remembers the first older woman who caught his eye, and the first time he made his father laugh.

Call for Submissions – Senior Men

Senior men, join the conversation!

The Good Men Project wants to hear from senior men.

Why I Always Put the Toilet Seat Down

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James Fell is proud to announce that he’s one of those guys who puts the toilet seat down.

You Look Good, Padre, He Said

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David Raether went from TV writer to homeless in a few short years. But he always had his kids’ respect.

The Overcoat of Masculinity Can Crush You

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Carlos Andrés Gómez tells a story that will stay with you forever (video).

Defining Moments: They Can Get F*&^%ed

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How can you escape an abusive past—a victim of bullying where no one believes you—without having those moments define you? One man’s story.

Get Your Red Pencils Out: We’re Looking for a Few Good Editors

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Are you passionate about men, The Good Men Project, and having the only ongoing conversation about what it means to be a man in the 21st century? Consider joining our editorial staff.

The Forge: A Movie Made from Pain for People in Pain


A video by Eric Raymond Lim for his sister Tanya Lim who committed suicide touches Thaddeus Howze deeply. And he hopes it will touch others.

The Authentic Man Experiment

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Damien Bohler sets forth on a journey of self-discovery in trying to find his authentic self, and a truly authentic relationship, with the help of dating expert Shana James.

How Can We Not Expect the Worst?

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Despite being a survivor himself, Nico Lang holds onto the hope that someday rape will no longer be something we expect will happen.

I Should Have Been Finding Him Reasons To Live

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After losing his best friend to suicide, Eirik Rogers was flooded with grief and on the brink of taking his own life—until another man’s story saved him.

My Last Days: Meet Ryan Woods

Meet Ryan Woods

“We’re all in the process of dying. What story are you going to live out?”