Three Conversations To Have Before Your Children Leave For College

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A lot of the trials of college life can be mitigated by some simple conversations.

Mentored Boys or Monster Boys

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“In the absence of elders, the impetuosity of youth becomes the slow death of the community.” Jed Diamond takes his grandson on a rite of passage.

Remembering Sensei

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Who owns the memory of a great man?

18 Suggestions for Thriving in College

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Markus Beyer’s wisdom on making these years the foundation of your successful adult life.

What Is the True Measure of a Man?

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We can’t choose our fathers, but we can find our own role models, says Donald D’Haene, who found inspiration in the real and scripted lives of Sidney Poitier.

Scared Straight

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Steve Jaeger lives to tell a tale of hitchhiking in the Age of Aquarius.

Fighting to Belong

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A fatherless boy in no man’s land, Rannoch Donald immersed himself in martial arts to become invincible.

Open Thread: How Do You Know How to Do What You Do?

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In which activity do you pay tribute to the one who taught you how?

The Male Straitjacket

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Mark Radcliffe tears up the myth of male independence.

Every Kid a Winner

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The patient coaches of Little League inspire players to walk away from every game, a winner.

The Masks We Wear

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Sometimes we need a second face in order to deal with the world.

A Modern Day Hero’s Journey Is What Today’s Boy Needs to Become a Man

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The entire reason we have such a thing as a quarter life crisis, and later a mid-life crisis, is because boys and young men lack meaningful rite-of-passage experiences.

Fatherhood by Proxy

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How Michael Riedlinger learned to be a father in a fatherless family.

“How can we expect men to step up where no one taught them?”

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This comment was from Tom B. on the post “All Children Are Born With Potential: A Talk with Wendy Foster of Big Brothers, Big Sisters.”

Living the Impossible Dream

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Most people would say he shouldn’t still be alive, but he is. A heartwrenching excerpt from Robert Levithan’s new book.

New American Heroes

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“Who are the real heroes?” Fredrick Marx believes it’s the men who are mentoring and initiating teen boys.