New Rites of Passage for Young Men

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How to create meaningful rites that young men want to experience.

What Coach Chuck Merino Taught Me

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More than twenty years ago, popular Boy Scout troop leader Chuck Merino came out as gay. What did an average teenage boy learn from this exceptional coach?

Batter Up

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My girlfriend’s 15 year old kid had played a year of Little League and hadn’t picked up a bat or glove since. This was an opportunity for us to bond, but the odds were stacked against us.

The Disposability of Black Men

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Black men are brutally murdered and systematically incarcerated. Is this genocide?

Reimagining Mentorship

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The building blocks of society are its adult citizens. What kind of society do we want to build?

The First Rule of Mentorship: Be Present

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If you want to be there for someone, there’s just one thing you have to do.

A Curriculum of Male Mentorship: 1/5

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If you were writing the lesson plans for an introduction to manhood, what would you include?

Jamaican Gentlemen

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For a revolutionary generation of young Jamaican men, the strong and available role models looked like the enemy.

Helping Guys Understand Relationships without Watching “Chick Flicks”: Advice for Parents

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Parents can help prepare boys for all kinds of relationships by examining those in the sports world.

A Guy’s Wilderness Canoeing Adventure

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When young males are without older men as guides to the natural world, it’s easy for them to be completely disconnected from nature.

Homer’s Hero

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Cameron Conaway offers a moving and personal dedication to his mentor, martial artist Daryn Clark, who despite fighting brain cancer still dedicates his life to helping others.

“With an arbitrary age for adulthood and no guidance, people end up ‘lost’ after high school.”

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This is a comment by Trevor Sprague on the post “Where’s My Burning Ant-Glove?”

Men in Schools—For Boys

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Earl Hipp sits down with youth mentor Dave Bolduc and discusses his successful social skills program.

Initiation and Mentorship: Two Halves of One Whole

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Frederick Marx looks at the reasons some boys don’t fully develop into their own as men.