“The Most Popular Guys on YouTube” Are Cavemen

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Gretchen Edwards-Bodmer clicks on a link from YouTube telling her about the “Most Popular Guys” and all she sees are harmful stereotypes.

Gay Male Sexism and How It Happens

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A video of a talk by John Stoltenberg who explains how homophobia and misogyny are intertwined.

Ending Anxiety with Solid Shields and Open Vents

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Making guyhood better means involving the screens and valves that relieve male anxiety.

The Crisis of Masculinity in Britain

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There is a “crisis of masculinity in Britain” because of the pressures rapid economic and social change have placed on masculine identity says Diane Abbott, a senior British Politician. The rise of a “Viagra and Jack Daniels culture” is an indication of the pressure young men are under to live up to “pornified ideals.”

Things I’ve Learned From Writing Under a Gender-Neutral Name

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What changes when people think you’re a woman? Nico Lang explains.

Men Engaged – Standing Up By Lying Down

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What if men standing up in protest against rape of all people were a worldwide event?

Six Things I Learned from #LiberalTips2AvoidRape

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Bless their little hearts, the right-ward leaning segment of America has taken it into its head that it can maybe shake that whole “soft on rape” problem by promoting anti-rape measures.

Stuff We Should Stop Doing: Calling Women Cougars

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Yashar Ali argues that calling a woman a “cougar” is neither progressive nor supportive of women.

7 Reasons Macklemore is F’ing Awesome

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Alyssa Royse thanks hip-hop artist Macklemore for helping to change the world.

Rap Music as a Safe Space for Hetero-Masculine Love

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That most masculine of subcultures, the world of hip hop, ironically provides an acceptable outlet for men to express platonic affection for one another: through rap lyrics.

Boys in the Friend Zone

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How can we mentor boys in dating and relationship skills?

How We Say Sex

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Are we portraying good sex with bad imagery?

Misadventures in Campaign Journalism

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How Lucy Berrington accidentally became the enemy of the left and the darling of the right.

Geek Masculinity and the Spectre of the Fake Geek Girl

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Rachel Edidin looks at what happens when an alternative model of masculinity gives rise to a nasty strain of misogyny.

The Utility of Rape Porn

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Under what circumstances is it acceptable to simulate non-consensual or violent sex?

Our Porn, Ourselves

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Charlie Glickman maps the sexist anti-porn arguments of radical feminist Robert Jensen.