How I Discovered the Secret Ingredient to Being a Good Man by Watching Doctor Who

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“To love radically and wholly, invested fully in something that is not the self, creates a greater thing than the ego could ever imagine,” writes science fiction fan N.C. Harrison.

Queer Polyamory and the Challenges of Male Privilege

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Angelus Morningstar explains how queer polyamory challenges ingrained behaviors of masculine dominance within same-sex relationships.

Why We Must Listen to Our Emotions (Or Else!)

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“When we face our emotions, we can learn what they are trying to tell us about what we need and value,” writes psychologist Sandy Peace.

How to Save Your Relationship Before It’s Over…Forever

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“If you can create a teamwork attitude towards meeting your common needs, there is the potential to strengthen your connection and save your relationship,” explains psychologist Sandy Peace.

The Nuances of Consent and How Some Men Are Trained to Ignore Them

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“When men are unaware of their gender privilege, boundary violations occur,” writes psychologist Sandy Peace.

Solo Polyamory: Isn’t That Just Dating?

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Psychologist Sandy Peace discusses the merits of solo polyamory and the virtues of making your romantic intentions explicit.

How Polyamory is Turning Patriarchy on Its Head

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Psychologist Sandy Peace discusses how polyamory can check male privilege while fostering open and honest communication among partners.

Three Cheers for Cool Old Ladies Who Never, Ever Conformed to Gender Roles

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So many little girls have been taught to be sweet at all costs. N.C. Harrison examines the life and times of a female wrestler who broke that rule…and plenty of others.

Movies Guys Should Watch (Seriously!): Abel Ferrara’s Ms. 45

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Film critic John Ryan Powell examines an underrated low-budget film that explores the ramifications of sexual assault.

Movies Guys Should Watch (Seriously!): Tod Browning’s The Unknown

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Film critic John Ryan Powell discusses the most unsettling movie you’ve never seen.

I Changed My Life By Changing My Workouts (And You Can, Too)

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“The body and soul are one, and must be trained together.”

5 Big Problems With Prince Fielder’s ESPN: The Magazine Cover Photo

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Historian Oliver Lee Bateman discusses the implications of baseball star Prince Fielder’s appearance on the cover of ESPN: The Magazine’s Body Issue.

Here’s How I Deal with Disagreement. Got a Problem With That?

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“There are things which bind us all, a common humanity which transcends the doctrinal or ideological,” argues seminary graduate N.C. Harrison.

5 Things That Make the Internet Awful, And Why You Or I Might Be One of Them

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Historian Oliver Lee Bateman examines one of our most dysfunctional relationships.

On Privilege Checking: The Story of My RateMyProfessors.com Chili Pepper

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History professor Oliver Lee Bateman checks the various privileges symbolized by a single flaming chili pepper.

Nice Guys Finish Last…Due to Chronic Injuries: The Saga of Daniel Bryan

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What will become of pro wrestling’s short, oh-so-normal, and badly injured everyman?